Just want opinions. He says it was nothing, but I dont think that way. He says talking online is not serious.
2006-08-07 09:41:54 · 13 answers · asked by jensdesign772 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being a honest man, I would consider it cheating, but on the other side maybe he is telling you the truth that it was nothing if he was playing games with someone else, but I think he should have been spending his free time with you fishing or something exciting, If this happens quite often then I would say he is definately cheating, If it was a one time thing then maybe he was just doing it as a joke or something. Good luck hope things work out one way or another.
2006-08-07 12:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it could very well be nothing. however there was a fine line that was crossed. many guys, females too, see "sex" chat online as harmless. which to many it may be, but others it may just be a "flag" for something else. you have to let him know how your feel (if you haven't already). but the bottom line is and always will be...if he is happy with you, he shouldnt have to look anywhere else. where it's online, phone, or in person. and you shouldnt' have to go ahead and allow it either, b/c what can be harmless to one person can always lead to something more down the road.
2006-08-07 09:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~Stacy~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to you and him as a couple to define where you want to draw the line. If you both decide that it's ok to talk online sex, then he needs to understand that you may want to do it too. I have been married for 15 years and my hubby is ok with it.
2006-08-07 09:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by barbiesworldinsc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say hes cheating. There are sites exclusively for cheating such as Illicit Encounters, you only find yourself talking about sex online with someone else if you have already made the decision to be intimate with someone else.
2006-08-11 02:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by suzieQ 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that u r doing the same, lets see how he reacts to it. Because even though technically its not cheating, if u don't like it then he shouldn't be doing it.
2006-08-07 09:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is cheating... but I'll go ahead and tell you that he is probably not very loyal. Just my opinion.
Have a nice day :-)
2006-08-07 09:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Talking online, Webcams, Photos, it all stays in the mind and he can fantasize about her, online videos, see her do things with her or that she inspires. He is CHEATING on YOU. LOSE HIM he's NOT WORTH YOUR TIME.
2006-08-07 09:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on honey...seems like that's all he's worried about. And what's really messed up is that he's not talking to you about it.
2006-08-07 09:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by jso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating
2006-08-07 09:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by Chey K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be nothing , if he doesn't hide it from you it probably is nothing.
2006-08-07 09:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋