i broke my back a few years ago...i have not seen any kind of money in a log time ...i've done lost everything ...i had to move back home....i lost my friends ....can't find love .....everybody is always biching at me cause i have no money ....my bills are way out of wack....i cant work....so now i have the chance to either have surgery or settle......if i have surgery..i have the posiblety of dieing or never walking again....but if i settle every body would stay off my case...but now since i told my mother and father that im going to settle with out surgery now there biching at me about that .....man i am so stressed out can anybody help me? is this the way to live? this is my misery and this is my insanity.......what should i do ........?
2006-08-07 09:35:48 · 11 answers · asked by neverchild 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need a Life Coach. But for starters get some kind of unemployment or disability then work on getting your self back on track, you can work at Walmart as a door greeter with a disability.
2006-08-07 09:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The operation sounds serious, have you researched it enough to know exactly what your options are and the possibilities of surgery going wrong. I would do some research on the type of operation they want to do on you and make an educated decision on this, bills can be delt with but not walking again or dieing is another matter. You should be able to get a settlement even if they do the surgery. Take some time and research this. Good luck.
2006-08-07 09:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats tough man, I don't know why your parents can't be more supportive. But really if you do settle, then you need to get on disability(through the government) so you can have some sort of sanity again. The government can also help with medical(and past medical bills). I don't think working is an option unless of course you have a real good education. Thats an option too, go back to school(government can fund for that too) to get a career more accessibile(spelled wrong) to you. Good Luck!
2006-08-07 09:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prior to settling your case; I would find one good attorney and figure out if it's worth settling. In addition; you could file bankruptcy in court to deal with your creditors. One thing you have to take care of is your stress level. Stress can run havoc on the back; making your pain even worse. I understand you not wanting the surgery for the possibilities of never waking up or waking up paralyzed. Speak with a good attorney. Find someone who specializes in the field. Good Luck!
2006-08-07 09:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow something that a therapist might help you resolve. I don't think we have enough information to answer this. It's much too delicate of a situation... especially that there is a risk of death. I would seek a professional help and not Answers@yahoo. It's way tooo serious.
2006-08-07 09:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st and far most your life is more precious than anything. You take that surgery because if god wants you he will take you. 2nd money is not everything :What you really need is a person to help ypu get organized.
2006-08-07 09:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gotta go with Bear Nibble on this one.
2006-08-07 10:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by Enough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should do what u think is ryte b-cuz if the surgery can kill u than i wouldnt take that chance.
2006-08-07 09:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by *+*sArAh*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop back 10 yards and punt
2006-08-07 09:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would settle. cuz i dont want to die and i want to walk
2006-08-07 09:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by hotcakelaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋