Am I wrong?

Question

I just broke up with a girl after 1 1/2 yr. there was no bad blood. It was her birthday the next weekend and she proceeded to go out the whole week and come to find out she was "hanging out" with a guy that was a friend of mine untill he moved back to missouri. Now i said it was wrong andthey both said we wern't really frinds and it didn'y matter anyway. Now I have been going out and having fun and i have been talking let me stress talking to this girl. It just so happens she hangs out with my ex's friends but my ex and her don't even care for each other at all. I found out Sat. that this girl has a crush on me. I feel and even most of the girls my ex hangs out with thinks its alright we proceed with something. Now she says i am a hypocrite and i am wrong but she wasn't when she did it. Now she is in missouri hanging out with him and I am wrong for basically flirting with a aquaintance of hers. I told this girl one time it was wrong and i left her alone now 2 wks later I am wrong

Now I have been repsecting my exs happiness and have not said anything bad about her. It just seems odd tha I felt it was wrong how she did me with a guy that was my little brother in my fraternity I haven't been calling her or anything now she calls me and says I am wrong for talking to agirl in a bar I haven't even kissed her yet. Am i so wrong for being interested in a girl. Even better i am not doing anything worse than what she did to me. At least I am not in missouri with some guy only two weeks after we broke up after this guy stayed at my house every night when he was in town b/c nobody let him in But oh yeah me and him wern't friends

Answer 1

i think ignoring her is not solving to a problem but its another problem u must talk to her again be nice to make her be nice with u too

Answer 2

No, I don't think you were wrong, but you have to realize something very carefully. When you showed how much it affected you, that just gave her the amunition to go and turn the tables on you.

If the guy who was supposedly your acqaintance had that much respect for you he would have left her alone and went a different route or at least gave you the common courtesy to ask how you felt about the whole situation. But, since he did not that tells you how much of a friend he really was.

And as for her I hate to be calous, but you got some new *** now, so don't even sweat that. She is probably off in Missouri getting slayed by that other dude right now as we speak. And if you think that she is thinking about you right now, my man you are crazy. She could've cared less about your feelings or she wouldn't have put herself out there like that in the first place.

So what you should do now is be happy with your new booty and move on. She isn't worth it, if she does that to you after one and a half years. Good brother you should go see Ms. new booty and relieve your frustrations.

Answer 3

Well kinda it is wrong because you were mad about her talking with someone you use to know so where is it right you are kinda doing the same thing? Just go out and find a new crowd of people aways from the x...

Answer 4

Man you need to give me the short version of that, and I will be able to help you but saying my ex this and my ex ex;s that and i like cheese and soup makes me poop I'm mean seriously WHAT I don't know.

Answer 5

Way to complicated. Find an easier relationship without so much bagage. Geeze.

Answer 6

Why can't you find a girl that is not your ex's friend? Take things slow, find someone who you are perfect with and start a new beginning............lol

Answer 7

yes

Answer 8

yes

Answer 9

yes

Answer 10

are you nuts?? if you like this girl go ahead! let your ex deal with it however she wants. and really why do you care what your ex thinks?????