Is chat-cyber sex cheating?

Question

I caught my boyfriend having cyber sex with another woman showing herself on cam. Is this cheating? I think so.

Answer 1

The hypen in chat cyber-sex goes between the words "cyber" and "sex."

Thank you, have a nice day.

Answer 2

ja no for sure. Your love life may have gotten into that notorious routine and he's looking for something exciting and on the edge. Try be spontaneous, dress up like a nurse next time you're alone. Sure, it sounds cliche, but for some reason guys dig stuff that's out of the ordinary. Yes, that is cheating, but search yourself to find out why he did it in the first place. Getting caught is almost just as much fun as doing the deed.

Answer 3

I have actually been considering this question myself. He's not actually touching her, right? He doesn't even know her, right? Its almost like veiwing porn, right? But then I decide nah, its shitty and hurtful and I would consider it unfaithful. Why does he need to go find someone else to talk to or look at? Can't he talk dirty to you? Why can't he watch you? I figure if he is willing to sneak around and do these sorts of things virtually, it won't be long before he's doing them physically as well. Besides, I believe in emo infidelity. And if you had to "catch" him, (as in it wasn't something he discussed with you and you were aware of) that means he was hiding it and knew it was wrong to engage in; that it would be harmful to your relationship. If he knew it would be harmful yet continued with it....well, what does that say about his interest in your happiness?
Personally, I would have a fit and leave him. A girl deserves more respect than that...

Answer 4

i think its so much more personal then interactive porn(what the other girl said) id deffiintly say its cheating...on a scale of 1-10 10 being caught him in a gay orgy...and 1 being you caught him kissing a picture of another girl..its like a 4. doesnt mean it should be ignored tho...if he can do that to you and not have anything on his consious...how long till he can cheat for real and not care?

Answer 5

some may say its porn, but i think in a way it is cheating. he shouldn't be on line having another woman fulfill his sexual fantasies, and whatnot. so sweetheart you need to handle that. and if your boyfriend is doing this maybe its his way of asking for help. he probably feels scared to tell you that lately you have been slacking in fulfilling his needs sexually, and decided to fulfill his needs elsewhere (although its still wrong). maybe you should try to show him you appreciate him. and do something very kinky and exotic, something he will enjoy. but also let him know that you are not happy about his "Internet sex friend".

Answer 6

Yes

Answer 7

In a way yes. People do it because they are missing ``something`` in their relationship. I believe this behavior could lead to cheating if the person isn't honest with himself. It's a red flag.

Answer 8

Yes. My ex used to do that all night long!! I even picked up the telephone in the middle of the night to overhear him having phone sex with some nasty skank.

I had to accept the fact that he has an addiction, and I sent him off on his merry way!!!

Answer 9

What matters is what he thinks it is. If he says it's nothing than he also says that it is okay for you to watch other guys get naked in front of their cam. Ask him if it is still nothing if you get naked for some other guy in front of the cam? That should give you a definite answer.

Answer 10

No it's not cheating. I think he'd be cheating his cyber sexual partner if you went on-line and started "doing the eThang" with him. And trust me; his cyber cam girl...she'd be peeeeeee-isssed!!!

Answer 11

I would ask him if he would mind if you had cyber/cam sex with another guy. If he's say okay then email me.