Okay I've been seeing this guy for about six months now and things are getting serious.... Just a couple of minutes ago I told him that I was married and going through a divorce what do you think that he is thinking.....does anyone think he will still want to pursue a relationship with me or will he not want to talk to me anymore....
2006-08-07 09:20:59 · 25 answers · asked by Jo3-Jo3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen to me dear, if this guy really cares about you he will look past these obstacles, and forgive you, it's not like you cheated. however, you should have told him the truth from the begining, six months! thats alot. but as i said before , if he cares, then its ok. and dont get too serious so early, you are going through a divorce, and i'm sure you want to marry again, so take things easy. but if you like this, then make him understand why you didn't tell him and how you really feel about him.
2006-08-07 09:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by PASSION 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 04:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it depends on the kind of person he is. Because technically you did lie to him for 6 months. And he wont be sure if whatever you had with your ex-husband is officially over. Sure the papers will say that you guys are through, but what can assure him that you have no feelings for your husband. Besides he could feel as if he can't trust you, because you kept your marriage a secret for so long, because you still are married. So in the publics eyes you were cheating. However, he may feel sad that you didn't tell him and eventually get over it, and just wait until you are OFFICIALLY divorced.
2006-08-07 09:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by multiculturalmami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lied to him. Some guys don't care and some really do. You should of been up front with him and give him the choice to keep pursuing you or let it go. You might of had the right intentions but I would of told him before 6 months!....its a 50/50 chance for me....good luck!
2006-08-07 09:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have been seeing him for 6 months and you just now told him your married and getting a divorce, I would have given you the finger and changed my number. You better approach that on the second night, not the end of the second trimester of dating. What he is thinking now is what else is she not telling me and any trust you have garnered with him, just went out the window because of your failure to acknowledge the truth.
2006-08-07 09:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personally I wouldn't talk to you for the simple fact that if you didn't tell me this in the beginning you lied. Which means that your not trustworthy. And what if in the future you 2 decided to get married how would he trust you not to do the same thing to him. Another reason I don't think hes going to talk to you is because it honestly took you 6 months to tell the truth. That's sad.
2006-08-07 09:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by I love Jround 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight...you have been seeing another guy while you are still married and you have children.
You have been going out and dating and having s*x with a guy for six months and NOW...you tell him "Oh...by the way, I'm married and have children"
What do you think he is going to do???
If I was him I would be deleting your phone number from my cell phone and moving on already! Next time...do it as soon as you start to date.
2006-08-07 09:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by some1_on_the_side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels deceived and that the whole relationship was built on the first lie that you were single in the first place. It might have helped to be honest in the first place. Sometimes the things you expect to draw people away don't in the first place and they give things a fighting chance. In most cases i've seen things work out but in all reality don't wish for it to,because it's his decision now.
2006-08-07 09:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the fact that you hid you being married for 6 months means you willingly lied to him about something VERY big. So he's probably kinda pissed/upset about that. You can't blame him if he isn't willing to have a relationship with you - after all, you are married.
2006-08-07 09:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might definitely act mad for a couple of days cos u didnt tell him earlier. But be rest assured.....if he really likes u or loves you, he will come back. If he dosent, try to talk to him...its hard but it might help him talk to u. If he still dosent want anything to do with u, forget him. He isnt yours.....
hope that helps..I wish u the best.
2006-08-07 09:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by chocomilo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋