im 45 single i look 30 so im told. i do get chatted up a lot, mostly by men a lot younger than me. but i would love to meet a man aged 40 to 50 single and have lots of lovely cualities and knows that sex is great but likes to enjoy the finer thing in a relationship.without being to possesive and controlling of me. i am a free spirit you see. i love life and have an open mind to a certain degree. im not the jelous type either, and i dont mind my man looking so long as he dont touch. i get on with people of all ages and i believe my man should have as much freedom as he likes so long as he has time for me also . ive been told im a rare woman to find because of my laid back nature. but why cant i find a man to stay with me.?
2006-08-07 09:09:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
finding the right one is difficult. too many people put too many restrictions on things, few have hardly learned to accept and deal with the fact that people will be themselves. its a compatibility thing, and the willingness to accept that someone doesnt match 100% in ever facet of life.
2006-08-07 09:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by digital genius 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
It's true that as one gets older, you have to work a little harder to maintain you're appearance. This would apply to most anyone, man or women. Some ppl age gracefully and some don't. I can't agree that there's a sudden slide, though. I've seen many middle-age ladies that are very pretty and/or handsome ( not classically pretty, but nice features). I've seen middle-age gentlemen that look 10 years younger than they really are. I was fortunate and inherited good genes. There isn't a whole lot of difference between my high school picture and now. Of course I don't look 17, but imho, I look pretty good for my age. In my neighborhood, some of the ladies have let themselves go and don't make an effort. I would like to point out that the age span starts in their 20's on upward. So around here, it's not so much an age factor.
2016-03-27 02:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem that you don't want relationship you want a friendship with benefits. You want to do as you please but a relationship is about commitment. If seem that it is a do as I say or get lost. Too laid back and it seems you are take the relationship for granted. I know for myself that is not what I'm looking for. I want some one that is willing to work at a relationship beacuse for a relationship to last both parties have to work at it everyday. It's to had to find some one that is willing to work at a relationship because to many are always about "ME" attitude
2006-08-07 09:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want an older man when you could have a toy-boy? WHY!? Come on! You could be like Demi Moore and have all the younger girls hate you because you're stealing their men!
2006-08-07 10:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, reading your profile is similar to my personality, i like making people feel relaxed in my company. i am sensitive to how others feel. i am a genuine woman i tell it how it is but without offending anyone. howevwr i change if i feel people are taking advantage of my caring nature. i have said to x boyfriends '' you'llnever meet a person ever again like me, sometimes i think i'm from another land, i just can't understand people who arn't genuine, i love to have a friend who is like me but in all the years gone by i can count my real friends on one hand.so sad some people i wish i could have a mate like me. lol spiderannie
2006-08-07 10:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations.... you are the first woman I have come across with the same attitude as myself. I thought I was weird before I read your question....
Men like that seem difficult to meet, but they are out there.
I wish you luck in your find.
2006-08-07 09:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men don't stay unless they're caged or chained..plus the whole "i am a free spirit" thing just brings thoughts into my head of permiscuity and/or infidelity...definitely a deal breaker when it comes to setting the cruise control on a relationship..
2006-08-07 09:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jo C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
45 and look 30? Yeah right.....who told you that...your best mate... why don't you try Bingo or a nice Saga holiday to meet the age group that you are looking for... .
2006-08-07 10:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This day-in-age, it is probably wisest to suggest match.com or e-Harmony.
You sound like a great person. Good luck.
2006-08-07 09:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by kentata 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean you're 30 and look 45 otherwise you wouldn't be on here asking. lol
2006-08-07 09:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by richiesown 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋