A few months ago I was considering ending thing because I really thought that if you don't meet the persons family then they don't plan on keeping you.Now the question is how would you take this would you harp on that or just enjoy things the way they are
2006-08-07 09:00:59 · 16 answers · asked by confront 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-07 09:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a very good reason why you have not met his family yet. Since you did say yes you should talk to him about it. Ask him why yu have not met his family.. He might actually not be close with his family and want to make a family of his own. The only person that can give you the answer that will really matter is him. So talk to him and ask him, but do not harp on it that could just cause tension and strain between the two of you. If you love him and He loves you then it should not matter. But talking about it is very important if you can not talk about this then you might have other issues in the future
2006-08-07 09:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet the family as soon as you possibly can. An old teacher of mine didn't meet the family, and she later found out that the reason is because his family was from an abusive family. And her husband became abusive and so much happened.
I'm not saying that this man could be like that, its just better to meet them and know more before spending the rest of your life with him
2006-08-07 09:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by Serena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 14:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by freije 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder why he hasn't introduced you to his family. Meeting them ahead of time will give you clues on what you are getting married into. You shouldn't harp on it but unless there are legitimate reasons then you should be suspicious (could be a red flag you should not ignore).
2006-08-07 09:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be some mental retardation in the family he just hasn't gotten around to mention. Perhaps some other things like manic depression, alcholism, perversions and such. Information is power. Do you want to be in the driver seat of your life?
2006-08-07 09:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by ricosuarve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply ask when I was going to meet his family, if he avoids this then it is up to you. I wouldn't push him about it though, unless he is planning on you meeting them after the wedding. It could be just simple embarrasement of his family, not wanting to subject you to them. Good luck.
2006-08-07 09:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is trying to protect you from something. Maybe is family won't approve of you and he doesn't want to you to know about it. Maybe he doesn't get along with his family and he want to keep them out of his life. You should not pressure him though because if he asked you to marry him the obviously he loves you and want to spend the rest of his life loving you. I would be patient and give him some time.
2006-08-07 09:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it he probably knows better than to let you meet his family. My son will probably be like that later his sister are so mean to all of his gf's. Later I think he will stop bringing them home until he asks for marriage.
2006-08-07 09:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u want to meet the parents that was the bad part 4 me.
my parents hated my boyfriend. just enjoy things the way they are. or if u really want to, just ask him if you can meet them. if he says no then there's a good reason for it.
2006-08-07 09:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bloody hell, enjoy it. I have only "met" my mother in law a few times in 10 years of marriage and that was a few times too many! She is horrid, she hates me and my(our) children and I am so glad she is in another country!
2006-08-07 09:04:08 · answer #11 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋