as in body size?
2006-08-07 08:46:05 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think what attracts you to someone initially is a combination of personality and how they look - but what keeps you is personality. Looks change and fade.
2006-08-07 08:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course... I mean outer appearance is the first thing you notice, but that is simply attraction. Love develops from learning about a person's inside and that is what is truly beautiful... Some of the most physically attractive people I have met have absolutely no soul and nothing beneath the surface and they become ugly in my eyes.
Always remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder!
2006-08-07 08:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by The Trooper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the person in the package (body)should be more important then the size of the package(body)!!!
2006-08-07 08:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's the first thing I notice obviously. But if he has a good heart that's even better. So yeah apperance is important. If they weren't physically appealing to me, I wouldn't go any further.
2006-08-07 08:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Usually a person who has body size issues(either too big or too small)has this issue due to other issues.
2006-08-07 08:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of beautiful people who have a larger body size like Oprah and kimberly locke. personality is a lot more important though so it depends for me
2006-08-07 08:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. I like to get to know the person for a little while. I have had UGLY people become attractive to me because they were so sweet and I've had beautiful people become hideous to me because they were hideous inside. But yes, 100 or more extra pounds will put me off. I admit it.
2006-08-07 08:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really a so-so situation. My bf is a big guy and a I mean I really big guy. He was big when we started dating. I liked him for his personality. But now, he has gotten bigger and his health is in jeopardy. So basically, I believe its better to date someone who is has a healthy body size. Not crack skinny and not blimp big.
2006-08-07 08:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by ashyne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
body size not really for exsample i am like 6 foot and my girlfriend is like 5'4 but i love her personality and stuff like that and her appearence as in good looking means a little to me otherwise it is not as romantic of a kiss...idk hope it helped
2006-08-07 08:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People in relationships become better looking as they go along because they are happy. I actually like geekier guys so I guess you could say appearance isn't high on my list of priorities
2006-08-07 08:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a certain point. If a guy is a little on the heavy side that's okay. But if he is really big then it would really have to depend on their personality. After all a guy can be really cute and be a total idiot.
2006-08-07 08:51:51 · answer #11 · answered by Kisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋