imma confused i don't know what to do
2006-08-07 06:49:43 · 8 answers · asked by allie. <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. And who cares what wacko christians say about it. I'm a Catholic, barely, and I'm all for abortions, lesbianism, etc... In this world you should feel free and unbound by what other right winged a--holes have to say about your sexual preference.
2006-08-10 09:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by jeff the drunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't let anyone tell you that you are wrong, freaky, or sinful. There are many opinions in this world as to how 'right' being gay/lesbian is and some people hold those opinions very strongly. If someone condemns you in the name of religion or politics, let it wash over you and seek your own opinion. However, I am not against these beliefs.. if someone wants to pray for you politely, that is their way of offering you the best help they know of. It does no good for anyone to react to hostility or predjudice with hostility or anger of their own. You are your own person, always be sure of that.
There are many supportive communities around the world who can help you, give advice and support you through this difficult time of deciding how you feel and where you want to go with your life. There may be some locally in your area, and there are definitely many on the internet. I have listed one of the best websites in my sources at the end of my post.
One word of caution: while the online community may seem very friendly and supportive, and I am sure you will find good people to talk to and help you, always remember the safety rules - don't give out personal information such as real names or locations and always be wary of offering to meet in real life, no matter how tempting it is. These rules apply to all communities online, gay or straight.
I hope you find the help and support you need, and go on to live a happy and fulfilling life.
2006-08-07 07:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by Fenrir Winterwolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I kinda know what you mean. Don't label yourself. It goes back to ah 1999 I had an affair with a girl I work with needless to say my husband too was doing his thing. Anyway I always confided in my best friend (reno a guy) but we had a thing for each other but hid it. Meanwhile I had a thing for women and decided to explore. As you can see how things turns out. (smile) Reno is my soulmate. He is the only man I have been with since 1999 when I left my husband. And this was recent May 2006.Reno and I violated our 12 yr friendship. So if it's not him it will be back to the girls. So my friend goes " oh you crossed back over" i said no. I love Reno and I like my dykes. I would only go back if we don't work out. And that is highly unlikely. (smile)
2006-08-07 07:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like girls too... and it's not a bad thing to be a lesbian... I kinda of enjoy it when I'm with a other woman... don't you? if you enjoy it.. don't feel bad about it... it's okay to be a lesbian... I guess you can say I'm kinda of one too, okay, sweetie...
2006-08-07 06:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by meganbostongirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-08-07 06:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are one you are one and it ain't easy dealing with those that hate gay people.
2006-08-07 06:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not worse than being a gay i think.
2006-08-07 06:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by sketch u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess not so much but i mean...
2006-08-07 06:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋