k so i really like this girl she and i are almost total oposites though like i am real outgoing and she is shy i want to ask her out but i dont think she will get that i am being serious also i may be moving soon but i really really like her she gets me u know so how do i ask her out with out her thinking im just joking and should i ask her at all??
2006-08-07 06:16:05 · 21 answers · asked by theo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you bring up something that you know she is interested in, such as a movie or concert, event, etc. Then bring up in a casual but specific way that you would like to take her to that event. Tell her straightforwardly " I would like to take you to _________. Would you be interested in joining me? How about this Friday? Would you mind giving me your phone number so I can call you?" Then call her later that day and say you want to make sure that she knew you were serious and that you are looking forward to your date. It sounds like you really like her and if you make that kind of effort, she will definitely respond!! Good luck and keep us posted..
2006-08-07 06:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello theo,
Yeah, just ask her out. She probably thinks that you're fun to be with, but is too shy to talk with you. Just ask her out, and go from there. Don't worry about it. If she really doesn't want to be with you, she'll tell you. Give her plenty of time before the actual date, though, just in case she makes plans ahead of time.
Good luck.
--Rick
2006-08-07 13:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a note that tells her how you feel. Just walk up to her and give it to her the next time you see her. Let her get to know you a bit more before you ask her out.
2006-08-07 13:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I think you should ask her, and to make her understand that you are not joking take her to a nice romantic place so she gets that something serious is going on.
2006-08-07 13:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by sweeterthnhny12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this girl I would ask her out. She can only say no.
2006-08-07 13:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, u should. Just ask her out. Why wouln't she think u're being serious? Give it a shot:)
2006-08-07 13:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be serious and ask her. I'm sure she'll understand the difference.
2006-08-07 13:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont come out too strong but just ask her out. No I Love You's.
2006-08-07 13:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by raiders1008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her it doesent matter if your moveing but just put a serious face on and just tell her how you fell about her and then ask her out.
2006-08-07 13:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by NinjaTurtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait. But make her feel you're sincere about asking her out.
2006-08-07 13:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋