this is very urgent, is there a philanthropist on the forum here? i need to save my home!?

Question

my home has been rocked with domestic violence, and i have to take care of my mother and i m still studying, i can't leave my studies mid way (atleast i dont want to :( )and i need to save my home and i need money urgently :(

i m not even asking for millions :( all i m asking for is just about 300-500 dollars, which could sustain my home, my broken family for atleast 2 months within which i can probably find a job and start earning independently,

please dont get me wrong, i hate to beg , but i cant see anything else to do right now :(

i need money, i need it urgently, i need to keep a back up in place before i move on to work for a long term permanent solution, i dont want to end up on the pavement with my mother :(

please if u can help me or know somebody, please i will be grateful to u,

just dont pass rude remarks, i m on verge of desperation, its hard enough to come from a broken family,

please help me :(

Answer 1

You should call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. The call is free, and there are trained professionals available to assist you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. They can direct you to resources in your community for both short-term aid and long-term planning. Specifically, they can help you find a lawyer, obtain temporary financial assistance, find temporary shelter (if needed), and apply for a job.

Please do not quit school over this! If another violent incident occurs, CALL THE POLICE! Get your abuser out of the house--this is the only way that things will start to look up for you. Once you get him out of the house, you can start putting your life back together.

I know you can do it!

Good luck!

Answer 2

I think borrowing money from strangers might get you into more trouble than you're already in. Try a loan from the bank, take out a second mortgage, borrow from a friend, sell your stereo, or other things that your own of value. Get a job right away. There are temporary services agencies who can place you in a job the next day. There are jobs out there. Go get one. Don't borrow money from strangers. It's bad news.

Answer 3

My sisters, brothers and I survived an abusive childhood and even though we all have grown children, we will never recover. From that viewpoint I'd like to ask, what are you trying to preserve?
Call the police, get the abuser out of the house and try to some therapy. Stop being an enabler!

Answer 4

Why not try going to your church to see if they can assist. There are many that will help with utilities and perhaps a rent/mortgage payment. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

Sorry about hearing this. But I can't help you. I hope everything works out!