Now i become hysterical when i see my parents fight, or when i have difference of opinion with my husband. i am short tempered. my husband is very supportive but i trouble him a lot by creating issues. i try to control myself without any good results.
i feel my parents have psychological issues, which is sstill haunting me. they are very loving and caring towards me.but these fights and hysterical behaviour at times is killing me. How can i take them for a suggestion. I love them but cant bear all these
2006-08-07 06:09:41 · 4 answers · asked by diya 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You know...we are supposed to forgive people when they do things, or we won't be forgiven...maybe you can be the mediator...their sins are their sins, and although you are deeply wounded by their fighting, you need to concentrate on you and your husband, as you know you are to cleave unto him, and break from them...So, Just pray for them, and let God Handle it...like only He knows how...when they get to that point again, leave and say nothing. Just go...work on your marriage first and foremost, like the Bible tells us to do...they are adults now, and will have to answer to a higher power...but you need to make sure you don't repeat this in front of your children, and that is what it sounds like is happening, or going to happen if you don't have kids now...Good luck..at least you recognize it.
2006-08-07 06:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to think about you - get some therapy for yourself, and what you've been through. Then, you can ask your therapist the best way to get your parents to go to counseling.
2006-08-07 06:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My deepest sympathy...I'm going trough my parent fighting right now...everyday i wish they would just divorce...its horrible...any ways you might want to try therapy and marriage counseling...it will problem help..i hope, good luck to you!!!!
2006-08-07 06:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please get some help. The fighting your parents did was right up there next to abuse and affects you very directly and in a bad way. Here's a web site that might help: http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/ppc/prof_search.php?iorb=4764
2006-08-07 06:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋