My ex-boyfriend cheated on me and I had to dump him on my birthday. Even though he did that to me, I still like him alot. He asked me out and said he was sorry but I wasn't ready and he couldn't just be my friend. So now he hates me because I wouldn't go out with him and we are starting to get along. Do you think we could ever get back together? Do you think t would be awkward to invite him somewhere with our firends?
2006-08-07 05:30:51 · 12 answers · asked by lauren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will always like him. but just say friends. He will get over it. Yes it will be awkward to invite him out with you all friends.
2006-08-07 05:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hurt you, he cheated on you. Does that show you he loves you, he did apologize but words don't mean nothing. Actions speak louder than words. If he hates you because of not getting back together with him then that's his problem not yours. Did he expect you to take him back after he cheated on you? You could get back together if you think you could trust him again. Do you know if he is really is sorry? If he is then only give him one more chance after that don't give him anymore chances if he does it again no matter how much you like him. He'll only hurt you again if you take him back after a second chance seeing as he could do it again and you'd take him back.
2006-08-07 05:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value yourself at all you wouldn't want him back! It sounds to me that you have low self esteem or think you aren't worthy of having someone truly care for you. If you don't love yourself enough then you are taking the chance of having this happen to you again. Cause, not to be rude, but you sound a bit pathetic asking how to get your cheating bf back!
2006-08-07 05:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with the two of you before you start going out together with friends.
2006-08-07 05:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aint' nothing to do about ur EX-Boyfriend.. he's ur ex so why would u care if he hates u or not.. i wouldn't invite him nowhere.. all ur doing is causing more distress for urself.. don't invite him back into ur life to cause u more drama..
i'd move on and find somebody new instead of working backwards..
2006-08-07 05:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated on you then he isn't happy with the relationship. Something was missing. You should talk to him and figure out what it is. communication is the key to all good relationships.
2006-08-07 05:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by christsluv4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Agree with precious227, you need to get away and stay away, when you have cheated on your boyfriend/girlfriend once, you will do it again. so leave it
2006-08-07 05:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Dez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe eventually you can become friends again, and start going out with friends together, and eventually you guys may start to like eachother and go out again!
2006-08-07 05:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it girl. End the cycle now! He will only continue to hurt you.
2006-08-07 05:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him, he is no longer worth your time. Find someone that will be honest and trustworthy to you.
2006-08-07 05:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋