We had a big fight yesterday. It all started when some girl called him and I asked him who she was. Then I asked him if he's commited to our relationship and he said that he can't be commited to me 'cause I don;t do anything for him. He also said he will never marry 'cause eveone in his family is divorced and he doesn't want the same thing. He told me I shouldn't be mad that he talks with other girls 'cause he's not my husband, yet I clean, cook, and do his laundry like i'm his wife, but he still tells me I don't do anything for him. I don't get it. Is there still a point of being together? I know he loves me and that he cares. We're a year and a half together, we don't live together.
2006-08-07 05:26:13 · 5 answers · asked by maya 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really need an answer? Obviously the smart thing would be to leave him. He's straight up telling you he won't marry you, thinks you don't do anything for him, uses you as his maid....are these qualities you find attractive? Man, if that's how he"loves" and "cares", I'd hate to see the alternative....
Wake up, sister.
2006-08-07 05:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by SavageLettuce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm i really don't mean to be offensive but... He doesn't love you. Simple, a person that acts like that. Move on, you sound nice and you are probably gonna get a lot better than this guy.
2006-08-07 12:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Chris P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't be committed, kick him to the curb. Find someone who will treat you better.
2006-08-07 12:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get any point across... stop doing everything you do for him... let his clothes pile up... let the dishes pile up... let him come to you and then say that you do nothing... then you have a response to shut him up and help him realize
2006-08-07 12:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he loves you or cares but he is not showing it...kick him to the curb! thank goodness you don't live with him.
2006-08-07 12:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋