The only problem is that when I attempt to cheat, something holds me back. what's wrong with me?
2006-08-07 05:20:40 · 26 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing is wrong with you. You are just a person with good morals. You know that it is wrong to cheat no matter what the situation. Like they say 2 wrongs do not make a right. You are doing the right thing in this situation.
2006-08-07 05:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by miss_nikki214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "What's holding you back? I'll tell you. The fact that you love this guy, the fact that you love him so much that you are devoted to him, and the fact that nobody has a firm grasp on your heart are why you can't do it.
Let me start by saying that two wrongs don't make a right. While it's true that you were hurt, how is he handling it? How is your trust in him now? Do you believe him? If you want to get even, then this is evidence that you still care for him. If you didn't you wouldn't try to get even. You would leave him. If he is truly sorry about what he did, then there is a chance you can salvage the relationship. If not, then it's pretty much over. Good luck to you."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-07 06:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decided to stay with him its only fair that you forgive him completely and not hold it against him.
Good thing something holds you back. Because its WRONG. Becuase you know the pain you went through when he cheated and you know you shouldn't. And how petty it is to stay with him but want to get even?
You need to forgive him and move on. If you can't, than you shouldn't be there in this relationship! Look within yourself and figure out what you want, truly, do you want to sacrfice who you are- your morals/values to 'get even'?? Are you going to tell him after you cheat? If you have no plans to tell him- note that its not the ACTION of you giving your body to another person that will hurt HIM (it will hurt YOU and only you) but its him finding out about the betrayal that will hurt him. And without knowing about the betrayal, you aren't getting even because he won't feel your pain.
I suggest you let it go, or move on.
Good luck.
2006-08-07 05:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with. I went though the same thing and tried to do the same thing you are thinking about doning and something dind't feel right with me either. If something holds you back than it is love. Besides getting even is not the right thing to do and it can make you look like less of a woman.
2006-08-07 05:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by pappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get even, get mad. If your BF cheated on you, dump him and move on. If you cheat with someone else you'll only make things worse and might pick up an infection as well. Be a better person than he is.
2006-08-07 05:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously too good for him. Not only should you cheat on him with his best friend (or even better, his Dad), but you should get a photo of you riding the lucky guy and e-mail it to him with the caption, "How you like it now? ps He's bigger than you!)
2006-08-07 05:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something doesn't compute. "Sometimes you feel like getting even"? What is it about being cheated on that feels good to you? Don't you deserve a faithful b/f?
2006-08-07 05:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with you....your just a good trustworthy person who stands by their morals....dont feel bad if you cant go as low as your boyfriend by cheating.....and on a more personal level...i would keep an eye on your man bc if they cheat once they'll do it again...ive had it happen every time i was trusting and forgiving after the first time
2006-08-07 05:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong is that your bf is a cheater, and once a cheater always a cheater. And that's almost impossible to forget and to live with. I strongly suggest ending the relationship and moving on with your life. Good luck.
2006-08-07 05:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there is nothing wrong with u, but there is something wrong with your r-ship.
if ur thinking about cheating-- that means ur still together... and it sounds like u shouldn't be. you haven't forgiven him for cheating, and you know that if you cheat, it will hurt him. why stay with someone who you want to hurt.
you don't need to cheat- you need to break up with him... unless you can truly forgive him.
2006-08-07 05:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by karamel_coffee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋