Ok my boyfriend broke up with me and recently he has been calling me and texting me and yesterday he had his friend call me and ask if i would come into an abandoned house with them at like 9:00 at night and i didn't go but then they called me at midnight cuz they know i am always up and that my cell is on then and asked me if i would come over to that same friends house today what should I do? And why do they want to see me so badly i am completely confused please help
2006-08-07 05:10:01 · 45 answers · asked by treylynnllewelyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He broke up with you. Get over him, let him rot, and don't do stupid things with him. Really, you deserve better, honey. Anyway, just stop responding to his emails and phone calls--he'll get the hint :).
2006-08-07 05:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by Amber E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie don't do it. This is one of those things that you hear about in movies or in the news papers. You could be a victim of something very horrible. you just don't know about people these days. There are alot of sickos out here and he could definitely be one of them. Abandoned places at 9 O' clock? Come on hunny doesn't that sound freaky to you? I only pray that you will not stay in contact with this weirdo and that you will most definitely not go and meet him. You could be the next statistic that we all hear about. Whatever you decide, may God be with you and keep you. I'll be praying for you.
2006-08-07 05:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to an abandoned house at night with them. Next time he calls, ask why he wants to see you. Maybe he wants to get back together. If he doesn't have a good answer for you: ignore him, he broke up with you.
2006-08-07 05:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go, they might have something fishy plan. If he wants to see you tell him you Will meet him at a public place like a restaurant. Just meet him somewhere where there is a lot of people. Don't let him come over if you are alone
2006-08-07 05:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to get back with you, or at you. Be cautious. Also, you sound like you are still young. Be very careful about going out at night to abandoned houses with guys.
2006-08-07 05:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear... Ok look this could go one of several ways. Figure out which of the following describes your sitch and go with that...
-Your relationship ended badly, you're not really friends-DON"T meet up with him, it probably wouldn't turn out well and you could end up badly injured. Him & his friends are playing you, don't play along.
-Your relationship ended on good terms, not friends- Go but go with some friends with you that you trust. The above could still happen and you'll need "backup".
-Your relationship ended on good terms, friends, you want to get back together (or want to still be friends)-Invite him and friends out with you and your friends. Kind of like a group date. It's best to play it safe.
I wish you luck. If this doesn't work out, YOU MUST GET AWAY FROM HIM. If it does, GOOD LUCK
2006-08-07 05:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go girl. They may be trying to run a train on u or something. If he wants to talk to u tell him to come to your house alone or meet somewhere during the day, in public, with plenty of people around.
2006-08-15 04:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by Nayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both that you've always relied on your favorite uncle who is a detective for the police dept, to help you make decisions like that, and that if they're willing to meet you at the police dept to meet him first, that you'd at least consider the idea and get back to them with your decision. While you're at it, may as well delete them both from your contacts list 'cause they'll probably move as quick as possible. lol. Larry.
2006-08-14 13:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut. There is a reason you didn't go to the abandoned house (not that you should anyway). I smell some kind of set up in that. Watch yourself.
2006-08-07 05:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... your ex..boyfriend now..probably sees that he made a mistake in braking up with you and probably still has feelings for you.. thats why he calls you and is texting you.. but then his friend calls and invites you to a ababdoned house with both of them. your ex..boyfriend is trying to see how far you will go to talk to him and see him...(he probably thinks you still like him or somthing like that) since he invites you over to his house with you ex..boyfriend there...tell him that you will and bring someone along and it will be better... i dont think they want you that badly..there probably trying to mess with you... just call you ex up and ask him whats going on and why is he doing this.. if you do that it will answer a lot...
2006-08-07 05:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by [rawr] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this guys have a criminal record? Abandoned houses? Former Boyfriend? - You should write this down and sell it to Paramount. You'd make millions.
2006-08-07 05:14:27 · answer #11 · answered by James A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋