2006-08-07 04:33:36 · 17 answers · asked by mary g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-07 04:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by haitianprince10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is time for someone to fix two hot cups of chocolate and have a conversation with their mom. It is best to tell her now. If she finds out she will feel betrayed and so not in control of her household and charge (you). Obviously, you feel you are old enough to have a boyfriend. Sparks of grown up and woman bursting all through you. Well, if you wish to be taken seriously tell your mom what is going on. This way she will feel she can trust you to communicate and be straight with her. I am not saying she will not go off and tell you no way no how - but if you are honest with her at least you will not have to here the "I can not trust you to be honest with me" speech. Do the right thing because worse case scenario you lie to her or fail to tell her about your relationship and something bad happens...
2006-08-07 04:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why dont you start by introducing him as your friend and go from there see how she likes him how he acts. then in like a month he can tell your mom that he like you and wants to make you his girlfriend and if she thinks thats ok . i know it's a little decieving but depending how your mom is this will be the easiest way. if she is a cool mom than let her know straight out if you think she will freak do it the way i said atleast she will get to know him and maybe even like him before he ask her for you to be his girl . you know what i mean .
2006-08-07 04:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by mary_llinas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your not suppose to have a bf than you shouldn't. tell you bf that you cant have that type of relationship right now and if he doesnt understand that he is not worth you time but if he really loves you than he will wait for you. then you dont have to worry about telling your mom. i am 15 and i am not even allowed to date yet. there is the guy that i like and he likes me too. he loves me and i love him. i told him that i wasnt allowed to date because he can. and he understands. he is goign to wait for me. i even told my mom about it. and if you tell your mom about this guy than she might trust you a little more and maybe you will be able to date him. i wasnt suppose to date till i was 17 and now that i told my parents about the guy that i like, i have earned their trust an now i can date when im 16. just take my advice. it might help. and if it doesnt than at least you wont be in as much of a mess than you are now.
2006-08-07 04:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by fesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is talk about having a boyfriend and the disadvantages and the advantages on having one. Then ask her what she would think if you had a boyfriend. Is it too early? Things like that. Don't tell her you have one already unless she asks. If she don't ask don't tell. Then depending on her opinion follow with an action. Meaning if she doesn't like it, you need to break up.
2006-08-07 04:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to her that you are getting older and you have a boyfriend.. Then just tell her a little about him and then she should be fine..... My parents didn't know about my bf's until I was on my third one.
2006-08-07 04:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirl16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say mom "i was wondering if i could date this one guy. i really like him and he asked me out the other day. he's sweet and smart and is good to me and i really want to but i would feel more comfortable to ask you first" but u already have him so if she says no then keep on a datin. and if she says yes then YAY u are good to go
works for me everytime! but u might wanna change a few words so it sounds just like u.....
2006-08-07 04:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably the safest way is via the telephone when you are about five states away so she has time to cool off. Also, don't be stupid. Graduate from college first.
2006-08-07 04:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already knows, she is waiting on you to talk to her about it. Moms know EVERYTHING, and even if they don't, they will 'bluff' and make you tell them anyway.
2006-08-07 04:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by ~2Sxy4u!~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you need to open up to her because you are getting older and into peer pressure and your mom will need to help you it doesent matter if she laughs at you or gets mad she is your mother and will help you all your life.
2006-08-07 04:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start talking about him with friends in front of her she will figure it out. Why not tell her yourself?
2006-08-07 04:38:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋