Do I need to be smoother? Ladies do you want me to run game or do you want me to be real?

Question

I am pretty straight forward with women. I do not go into "mack mode" when I see a woman I would like to talk to. I simply start talking. I once told a waitress she was going home with me. I asked her what time she was getting off and she told me. I dropped it at that point but I am sure she would have come with me. I was criticized by my comrades for not being smoother. What was I supposed to say? "Hey girl, you look fly in them apple bottoms, like to get all up in that." I cannot talk like that, it seems ridiculous.

Answer 1

Mr. Chivalry says, "Being someone else will only cause problems in a relationship, when you get to that point. Be yourself, and when a woman wants to be with you, she'll be with you, and not a different personality."

Mr. Chivalry has spoken.

Answer 2

If it works for you, keep doin it. They are probably just jealous that you got her interested so quick. If you started talking like that around me, I'd laugh and walk away. You are doin fine. Good luck.

Answer 3

i think it sounds ridiculous too, just keep doing whatever you're doing and be yourself