Want a reason to keep living blah blah, depressed blah blah... Life sucks blah
2006-08-07 04:02:11 · 13 answers · asked by yeah well 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
There are some very rude and selfish people answering your question. You are obviously depressed and in need of help. You must start to look at life from a different perspective.. You are the main person who can help you and you have to take responsibility for your problems. When you have accepted that you are in charge of your own life and have learned to deal with problems head on, you will begin to enjoy what you have. I am considerably older than you, and I've had some really bad times, which I could have said other people caused, but if I hadn't let them happen things would not have turned out that way. Don't be fooled into thinking that it's the bad times that shape you. They will if you let them, but if you look at things from a different angle and learn how to handle them, you will learn how to change your world. Try and distance yourself, for a few minutes, from your problems. Write them down individually, then look at them as though you were an outsider. Deal with the smallest ones first and get them out of the way - that way your list becomes smaller. Think what you might say to someone else with the same problem and take your own advice. Please start now. Life is wonderful if you learn how to handle it, but you've got to get yourself cracking. Do it in small steps and you will achieve results every step of the way until it's all sorted. Just plod on and visualise yourself tackling each problem one at a time and how you will feel once you start to conquer them! Visualise yourself in a few months time when there aren't so many. Learn to love yourself and treat people as you want to be treated. You'll be amazed at the results. Love, positive thinking and strength to you. I wish you all the best and hope you learn from my mistakes!
2006-08-07 05:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Goforit 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are depressed about turning 30 then u should just stop a minute and think about all the poor sods that are struggling and trying to make it in life. Open ur eyes and look the hell around.
For example: -
Little babies who are hooked up to support machines
young & old who are trying to fight what ever illness or sickness that they have so that they can spend more time with their family and the ones that they love or even maybe see the sun rise or even sunset just that one last time.
What about the people out abroad who will drink dirty water knowing that if they drink it they could die but they drink it anyway hoping that they will be one of the lucky ones to live just that extra day.
Ur not the only one suffering in life and you never will be. Your not the only one with problems in life and you never will be.
So get up off ur a*s and get on with life and don't go mopping around FS4U (feeling Sorry 4 Urself).
In my opinion, If you decide to end it then that is ur decision because it is obviously ur decision. But, it think that it would be very selfish of you to do so. I know it won't be easy but hey it will be worth it
2006-08-07 04:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kym 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that nobody is taking you seriously.
I have reported all rude responders so far.
Feeling that way is a normal part of depression, a real illness that needs to be treated.
Have you been to the doctor? If you are on meds already, they are apparently not doing thier job. Please talk to your doctor.
What helps me the most in your situation is remembering that this feeling WILL pass and you will eventually feel better, as gloomy as everything appears right now. Consider yourself ill and take comfort in knowing you will feel better.
Next, get off the computer and FORCE yourself to do something that involves movement and the company of others.
Don't worry about the way you feel. Live through it and things will be better.
Peace out.
2006-08-07 04:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by lorgurus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got another 50 years in you if you are lucky! Don't be so pessimistic! If you are really depressed, get yourself to a doctor. Why don't you try some new hobbies? You'll meet new people which might help. Or change your job, or go to college, or go travelling......Life is what you make it!
We all feel depressed at some point in our lives, don't let life get you down. I always think my life is crap, but when I take a proper look, I realise that I love being alive. Try talking to someone.
2006-08-07 04:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by roxpox99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i always said from wen i was at school that i wouldnt live to see 30. it was my 30th last week and after several attempts at killing myself i found it hard to do so, so wen i turned 30 i didnt do it and thought f***k it lets just get on with life to the max so here goes im working on it now. add me and i will be glad to talk to u about things better if u like?
2006-08-07 04:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, well here's some news for you buddy, things do NOT get better as you get older, soon you will have to deal with a decrepit old body, and when you look at the little highschool girls with lust in your eye you will feel like and be called a pervert.
2006-08-07 04:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by thale138 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're a complete jagoff. Go eat a bullet already.
2006-08-07 04:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here, let me help you out, put your mouth on this and I'll pull the trigger.
2006-08-07 04:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by kekeke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a reason to live is you family your loved 1s your life
2006-08-07 11:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you die when God wants you to die...not before, not after!
2006-08-07 04:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by daniel4joyce 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋