he left for overseas nd now decided tht hw will never see me as his mom wont agree for our relation..he just left by saying this on phone nd now um unable to adjust..what shud i do/will he ever be able to understand my love?he never tried callin me back we bbroke 15 days back!i really need him..
2006-08-07 03:58:35 · 9 answers · asked by sapna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I know this is very hard to deal with but you need to strong for yourself and understand he is never coming back to you. You probably don't see this right now but you are better off without him because he is not a real man if he did all that over the phone and not to your face. You should be with someone who gives you the same respect that you give him and in time you will heal and you will let that special someone into your heart and he will truly deserve the love you give.
I wish you all the luck!
2006-08-07 04:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by sassy_italia4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is really a tough one, I know that you are probably hurting right now, not only that you maybe a little confused. But it will get easier, you should try to write him to clue him in on your feelings and your confusion. Even though he may have already made up his mind about your relationship, it will help you if you are able to get your feeling out in the open............On another note, if he is overseas, I am guessing he is military or something, just a guess, but Service men sometimes break up with there significant other when they are deployed to help them get through there deployment. Maybe he broke up with you to make it easier for his transition, if he breaks up with you now, doesn't mean he won't come back to you, just need a peice of mind while he is away (so he doesn't have to worry about you cheating on him).
If this is not the case, take some time to yourself and then move on, you will find your MR. Right. Good Luck
2006-08-07 11:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now it's really hard for you to accept that he's gone, but you have to get over him because he's not the first or the last boy on the planet. Maybe that's how it had to be. Try thinking that maybe you would have suffered more if you would have been together. I believe that this is a sign from God...so forget him and move on with your life no matter how hard it is!
2006-08-07 11:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by mickurahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is try to forget him and get over him; I know this is easier to say than do; but try to distract yourself; go out with other people do other things. Even if its hard at first it will be better in the end. Even if he does come back; by the time he does you won't want him anymore; really you will see.
2006-08-07 11:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by jesn24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a guy I would have to say that .... You dont need him ... you shouldnt ... If a guy cannot stand up for his relationship and at least try to convince his parents, how can you expect him to take care of you ... He didnt even have the courtesy to meet you and explain or find out how you are ... You need to respect yourself more ... He cannot make you happy.
2006-08-07 11:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by Subharnab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not a real man. Time will heal. You can find someone much better than this jerk. When the time comes, invite him to your wedding and he will regret what he did to you
2006-08-07 11:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by cobra queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person you NEED is you!!! Why do girls think they're only complete if they have a guy around the time??? Get on with it and over it!
2006-08-07 11:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him! he's just not worth you. do u want a mamma's boy to be your life partner? search someone who loves u, ur young n u will find a good partner i m sure. such people are not even worth our feelings n tears.
2006-08-07 11:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by taurus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confused...?
2006-08-07 11:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋