I moved on from No.2 although he was kind and loving, a big help round the house and a good father.Come to think of it he was good looking too but he was as dim as a nightlight and in the end was driving me slowly nuts. My new one is completely the opposite and I dwell sometimes, like now, on why we woman just can't count our blessings?
2006-08-07 03:56:33 · 19 answers · asked by Harriet 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No I don't, actually, yes I do
2006-08-07 03:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Rezza 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Well its hard really. We do make misstakes in life but this is how we learn. Some times the grass is not greener on the otherside as we may think it to be. Have a really long and hard think about this and make your mind up and once its made then do what you think is right. If you wont to go back to your loving caring man, who cleans the house (dam woman you had a good one there) etc. Or this man that you have now. I know what I would do. Good Luck
2006-08-07 13:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a choice of yours: To count your blessings or not to. You have subconsciously chose to compare.
The grass always seems greener on the other side, but lady, life is just as it is... you can't always get the best of everything. It is not as beautiful as the romance they often portray in dramas and movies.
True love and relationships should be built on support, care, affection, trust, understanding, communication, and faith.
You're never really attain the happiness that you could have gotten if you keep thinking of the 'What ifs'... well, life moves on, and what's past has past.. so just cherish the present, and make the best out of it! =)
2006-08-07 11:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by winnie_1423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are always searching for their idea of the perfect soul-mate, and as a result they end up going through a lot of turmoil and heartache. You need to sit down and think about what you really want and then move forward. The first guy sounds as though he might have needed a few books for his birthday or Christmas. The second guy sounds as though he needs a lot more. You need to prioritize what is more important to you. I am not saying "settle" for this person or that person. When you are in love and want to make a marriage last you learn to make compromises. Best of luck in your search.
2006-08-07 11:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly do not have second thoughts about previous relationships. That part of my life is now history and there is nothing I can do about it. I have three failed marriages and I remain close with my first ex, not close at all with my second and my third passed away over a year ago. I now have found someone with whom I am certain I will stay with for the rest of my natural born days. Life is far to short to worry about the past so try and look forward to the future and all the bright things that await you.
2006-08-07 11:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say, be careful what you wish for. Sometimes when we get something decent and things are going to good, we like to disturb the peace until we end up with someone that isn't as loving, charming, and caring then we start missing the well because the water has run dry.
Basically, we just don't' know want we want and as a result we can't figure what we want and when we get what we really need, we don't want it.
2006-08-07 11:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean as i've experienced this a good few times in the past. Basically i feel that life is just too short and only you know yourself if you're truely happy or not. If you're not, it's only right that you try and find something/someone who does make you happy. Hey - I've just found that person and he's changed my whole life, perspective and attitude to everything and i never knew it was possible to be so happy. Life's short - enjoy it!
2006-08-07 11:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count? Can women other than Carol Vorderman count? Joking. Live for the moment and be happy with what you've got. You've made your bed, invite who you like to sleep in it!
2006-08-07 11:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by ticklemonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has second thoughts it is completely normal. If anyone of us could figure out why we do the things we do, we could write a book and make millions.
2006-08-07 11:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by oconnorct1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all look for the best of everything. sadly, it doesn't exist. when you see that he was ALMOST perfect, you want to rectify or chage those aspects of him that weren't perfect. it's like buying a brand new shirt with a small tera in it. everything about it is good except for one little tiny flaw. can't really change it and if you do then it'll look like something was done to alter it.
2006-08-07 11:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had second thoughts before but never regret moving on.
2006-08-07 11:03:59 · answer #11 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋