do you ladies need it to be recongnized or is the fact i remembered going to earn me bonus points? Would you consider it the day you first met her(with friends) or the day of your first real date alone together. dont worry everyone, i know both days so that isnt the issue ;>)
2006-08-07 03:44:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well thanks for the responses. the day we met was on my birthday(if i forget this one i must have went senile) and our first date was the next weekend. however she is on vacation and her brother told me to remember this kind of stuff so i am going on his advice.
2006-08-07 04:10:30 · update #1
Both days.....ALWAYS recognize all dates especially when it has to do with your relationship. She will love you even more for it. And it will let her know that you really care. And I applaud you for remembering both dates, most men need to be reminded of their marriage anniversary. Keep up the good work.
2006-08-07 03:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by CLM 6 · 8⤊ 6⤋
Believe me, the woman will remember. It will go a lot better for you if you keep track of it too. And I personally would consider the first "real" date as the starting point, but I would mention the fact on the "anniversary" of the first time meeting.
2006-08-07 10:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by leadfoot126 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never worried about monthly anniversaries when I was dating my husband... but I guess some girls are high maintenenance like that. I guess it wouldn't hurt to acknowledge it, maybe stick a note on her car or a flower. But if she's one of those girls that gets upset because she didn't get a dozen roses and candy on your 4 1/2 month anniversary, then ditch her, because she has alot of growing up to do!!!
2006-08-07 10:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsay M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's necessary to make a big deal about it. It's nice to maybe mention it so that she knows you remember, but I don't think much else is necessary.
As for which day is your anniversary, that should be determined by the two of you. Different people have different ideas about which it should be.
2006-08-07 10:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very sweet that you remembered... and romantic and with most girls it will earn you "brownie points". I doubt it will matter to her which day you chose to remember, its how you remember it that counts. Send her an e card (or buy a paper one) and a flower (a single rose is a nice gesture) or maybe some chocolates (unless she is diet crazy). My boyfriend remembered our six month anneversary by marking it on the calendar with foil hearts and tissue flowers and he made dinner. I was more than impressed and he definitely earned his "prize". Good luck to you.
2006-08-07 10:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by Onegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Third month anniversary?!? Are you 12? That is the most ridiculous "anniversary"! Save the celebrating for the big ones!
2006-08-07 10:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bonus points. Go back to the same places as your first night out together.
2006-08-07 10:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose the first day you met her to be the true anniversary...and yes, get something...a nice card and maybe something like a small teddy bear! Jewelry is always nice!
2006-08-07 10:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like it if you remember stuff like that when we don't. Doesn't matter what it's the anniversary of! :-) Just don't go so extravagant that she feels guilty for not acknowledging it - because those type of anniversaries are completely unnecessary.
2006-08-07 10:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wud say u shd celebrate the impact she has made in ur life for the past threee month.
i personally i wud celebrate it if my life changed for the better in the three months i met somone rather than the day i met her.since i definitily will ve to meet her some day
2006-08-07 10:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman like guys to remember these things. Especially if you are pounding the ugly. Buy her flowers - she might give you a BJ in return!
2006-08-07 10:47:53 · answer #11 · answered by Mr. PhD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋