i see this girl everyday which makes me feel the sudden urge to smile... but sadly, i see her with her boyfriend.. everyday... i tried so many things to forget and erase my feelings for her... but i could hardly do it... it seems that i want to forget her so i won't be hurt again but still, she's always on my mind and i can't stop thinking of her... i long for the tenderness i feel when we talk.. which was gone long ago... please tell me what to do... i'm dying each day i see her...
2006-08-07 03:44:24 · 23 answers · asked by -=Coolio=- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks guys... but what if i already told her what i really feel? i mean, i confessed because i couldn't help it.. i confessed even before she knew denz(her boyfriend).. does this mean that she really don't want me or she was just shocked because of my confession?
2006-08-07 04:30:24 · update #1
ohkay im gon giv it to u on tha real kay?! this gurl...she has a bf u say...if he treats her bad it wont last long...mayb deep down she hasnt realized her feelings for u yet or mayb even for that guy...i think personally she knows it gurls alwayz sense when a guy likes her u cant hide ur feelings STOP trying...u cant help who u like or love...if it is meant to b it WILL HAPPEN dont giv up on her...soon she will b urs if GOD intends that to happen...mayb..try to c if she getz jealous u should try datin around...mayb there r other gurls that Like n feel for u n the way u feel for this gurl but ur soo blinded by her u cant c it! open up u can still feel for her but just look around i kno sumone around is feelin that way for u! best wishes buddy email me n tell me how it goes...my advice might not b tha best but i try!! GOOD LUCK! true love will find u...trust me!
2006-08-07 03:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once heard that you can't choose who you love. Love would be easier if you could. Unfortunately, she is with someone else. If you have any chances of being with her than keep your friendship. DO NOT tell her how you feel while she is still with the other guy. This has happened numerous times to me and it never turns out well for the guy in your position. If her relationship doesn't end soon, you will eventually get over her. My advice, give it some time it will work itself out.
2006-08-07 03:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by hockey_kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep talkin to her and beeing nice to her...and DONT TELL HER HOW U FEEL!! in the meantime try to meet another girl so u can take ur mind off her (it'll help u chill out when ur around her)... and one day... well if things go sour with the guy shes with... u'll be on her list of potential new bf... just don't wait for her in pain... cuz if u do... even when the right time comes u might mess it up for idolizing her... just take it easy
2006-08-07 03:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Filo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her you consider her happiness too; and perhaps she is happy with her boyfriend. Don't evil-eye the couple it's sad that the girl you want is with someone else but it's life. You need to move on and find someone right for you.
2006-08-07 03:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by Like a dream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i know how u feel, i used to think i loved this girl during high school and for 6 yrs i totally wanted her. now at uni, i dont even think of her. u see ur just attracted to her. once u spend a few months at a strip club or something u wil totally forget her
2006-08-07 03:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spit it out brother, get her by herself and say we are not promised tomorrow and I know I might not get the chance to tell you this ever but I know you are taken and I'm not trying to wreck it but this is how I feel about you and I thought you should know. Say it then leave it just walk away don't try to see a reaction just let it marinate
2006-08-07 04:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by nicktomlinson423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty goes a long way. Tell her if you were free I would want to date you. Then wait it out or say we get along so good I don't know why you are dating him and not me. That was what made me dump my guy for my husband.
2006-08-07 03:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm how about u just start looking around or something, u know for someone else. it is good that u are not trying to brake them up, really is. and it is also good that u are trying to stop feeling for this girl. trust me, i know how hard it is, i meen with guys, its weitd, every time i find someone that i think they like, they like someone else. ur lucky u at least got a crush. im totally crushless
but good luck to you, really
2006-08-07 03:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Replacement and displacement reaction.....\
just become the better and stronger person in all aspects and a replacement and displacement reaction will take place.....
be optimistic and be in pursuit if u really want her.... and try to find out if she is also interested in someway to you...
2006-08-07 03:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by zazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say your age.
You should probably ask other presentable females out. Maybe a nice surprise will happen.
After three months from TODAY, give up on it.
2006-08-07 03:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋