whenever we talk they put jesus into the scenario or situation. I want to share in this person life but they make feel like i am a devil because i am not as spiritual or share the same beliefs, will this become a obstacle for our friendship or should i just pray?
2006-08-07 03:29:31 · 23 answers · asked by APRIL 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Hmmm I was in a similar situation, my friend Amy became super super religious after highschool and would never shut up about Jesus...She got into a really bad car accident and she believed that God did that to her on purpose because she was being pridefull about her new car...Stupid i know...So i just used logic and the education that I have to make her realize how rediculous she sounded. She is much better now..its just hard to do if the only basis of information you have to go on is the bible...so try to find out as much as you can about things so you can divert thier words with logic and truth.
2006-08-07 03:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try learning why your friend feels the way they do and learn about their beliefs a little even if you dont agree with them. With that understanding you will probably find that your friendship grows closer and better than you ever imagined. Be sure that if you dont agree with something, you dont argue about it. Just agree to disagree. I am sure they dont mean to make you feel badly. I am also sure that since they care for you, they just want to make sure you are doing right in your life and keeping God in your heart. If it still bothers you after this, then try talking with them and let them know that the thing that bothers you is that they are not making you want to get to know God by bombarding you with senarios etc. and that you would be more receptive if they would share only a little at a time so that you do not become overwhelmed. Try not to make them feel that they cant talk about God at all or they might not want to be friends any more. God has become very important in their lives. Religion is a touchy subject, and I wish you luck with this.
2006-08-07 03:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by ohliela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want religion, it shouldn't be forced upon you. Make it clear to your friend that you want to live your life minus God. As long as you're a good person and aren't acting like the Devil, she shouldn't push it on you. However, there is the other way, which if you think you're going to lose your friendship, you should take. Just go along with it and just kind of nod your head. Then, just gently swerve the subject in another direction. There are several options, but you decide. Good luck!
2006-08-07 03:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go into a semi-religious mode sometimes. I have a friend who does things which I strongly disapprove of, and if we weren't classmates at one point in time then I wouldn't be his friend.
But that being said, we are still friends. Many of our plans differ, where he may go to "bad" gatherings and I go to "good" gatherings.
Sometimes it's better to put a bit of distance to better save the friendship, instead of trying to do everything together and let the friendship blow up in your face. So depending upon your discretion, you might want to put a bit of a distance with your friend.
2006-08-07 03:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by anon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good thing for your friend to be spiritual. If you feel under minded you need to talk to your friend. Chances are they have found something amazing and want you to have the same experience. Your friend can help guide you to better understanding. Pray and seek proper guidance.
2006-08-07 03:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by godwon2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that your friend has went into religious mode. Their problem is that as neophytes they are not still mature in their understanding. Therefore they disturb others with their preaching. So, wait and see if they will get mature or if they remain fanatic then just give up their company. This association will frustrate you in your sincere attempts to understand religion (if you are spiritual seeker)
2006-08-07 03:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by aumklim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may pray, it would be ok, but don't pray if you don't feel the need to. I think you should tell your friend exactly the things you wrote here and your fears. If they're friend enough they will accept if you ask them to be less pushy about the topic. You could thell them to let you decide on your religious attitude when you feel you are ready.
2006-08-07 03:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Agnes K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand when someone always has to bring God into everything. Don't get me wrong, i consider myself a religious person, but sometimes people get obsessed and it's all they talk about. It's hard to be around someone like that. If this person is truely your friend, then you should be able to talk to them and tell them how it makes you feel and hope they understand. Good luck.
2006-08-07 03:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by latterdaylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has been brainwashed by a cult. Your only options are to show them why what they're saying is BS, or move on. His cult does not tolerate differing positions, so peaceful coexistence is not an option.
2006-08-07 03:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by lenny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep away. It is like a cult when they become fanatics. It's all they want to talk about. Find a more open minded friend.
2006-08-07 03:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋