I went out this weekend with all my mates and had a really good time!! At about 4 in the morning we went back to my friend’s house where we were just chilled and had more drinks and good music. There where a few of us like all ways and I notice a girl sitting in the corner chatting with one of my friends! I went over to introduce my self and we started to chat!
She never told me what she did for work until the next day after I got off with her and she tolled me she want to see me again and she really like me! I was surprised she liked me so much txting me all the time and she look really interested in me!! The only problem is she is a stripper and I just got out of a 4 year relationship! Need some help to make the right choice? Should I date her or not?????
2006-08-07 03:24:05 · 33 answers · asked by D J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably really likes you because you treated her like a person and not a peice of meat. She may not have told you what she does right away for fear that you would reject her, or think less of her. I have had friends that have been strippers, and I'll tell you, it's a hard road that they are on. Take your time, especially since you just got out of a four year relationship. Strippers tend to have emotional issues, especially regarding men. The fact that she is texting you all the time yet doesn't really know you rings some alarm bells for me. I'm not saying don't date her, but just PLEASE take some time to really get to know her before you sleep with her. She'll probably appreciate it, and you'll be glad you did.
2006-08-07 03:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by miztenacioust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is dating not marriage- go have some fun- stripper does not mean hooker- so date her find out more about her- if you get serious then you need to know how to deal with the fact she takes her clothes off for other men. Maybe sneak in where she works to see her show- it might give you an idea of whether you can handle her work. But for now just have some fun and get to know her it is a date
2006-08-07 03:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? It's just a job and she will always have a great body doing the stripper thing.
And since you got out of a relationship, what better way to bounce back than to have a rebound relationship with a stripper.
2006-08-07 03:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by bretto24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her being a stripper is only a problem if you make it one. How fresh is the break-up. You want to make sure you're not tripping over old baggage. I worked in the industry for years as both a light/sound tech and as a bartender and found strippers as a whole to be pretty much like other women; Tramps, thieves, Maxwell Housewives, students and every other variation. In other words; People. She likes you, you like her, go for it.
2006-08-07 03:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dutch58 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just getting out of a relationship of 4 years I really would not go for a stripper don't get me wrong some are good girls but most I know really hop around...Is that what you want if you are just looking for fun then go for it but a relationship I would not get my hopes up too high.
2006-08-07 03:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by lorie01504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to scare you dude,but everyone I have ever known to have dated a stripper has ended badly,however the final decission is yours and yours alone. The one thing I live by is the saying I tell myself all the time and that is You never know til you try.Just be careful.
2006-08-07 03:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by kahmfs74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sound kind of clingy. If she is txting you that much and you just met. Don't sleep with her until her STD test comes back negative. I would not date her if I were you. If she already telling you she really likes on the second day, she probably will tell you she is in love with you next week.
2006-08-07 03:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you could pass the word that she is a stripper and the thing she do for work then it would be okay to date her. I feel if you date her then you start you start becoming jealous of her work it won't be a good idea.
2006-08-07 03:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by WickeD_AngeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is just take things slowly don't rush and dont start panicking. Just take it slow and start from there you never know where it may end up, don't have any preconceptions of what it may be or how its going to turn out just go out there enjoy and have fun. Don't worry about what people think if anything they wish they could swap places with you. Good Luckxx
2006-08-07 03:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What someone does for a living shouldnt stop you from having what could be a wonderful relationship. As long as your happy and shes happy go with it this isnt a rehearsal this is the only life you have, dont waste it pondering something like what she does for a living.
2006-08-07 03:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋