my girlfriend and i just broke up a couple of days ago...she went on a trip and is coming back next week we are still on good terms...should i surprise her and pick her up at the airport?
2006-08-07 03:19:02 · 19 answers · asked by ajaramill0711 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do that....it seems needy...plus she may already have a way of getting home and it would be uncomfortable for her....wait till she's home for a day or 2 and see if she calls you...wait it out man! Don't jump the gun....there's nothing more unattractive then a man who appears to be begging....
2006-08-07 03:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 17⤊ 4⤋
If you're still friends then it would be acceptable. But I'd ask her family or best friend whether someone is already planning on doing that, that way you don't run into an awkward situation at the airport. It kind of seems like you still have feelings for her, do you? If you do you need to sort those out BEFORE you go to the airport or talk to her again.
2006-08-07 03:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO!!!!! why would u suprise her.. how about u ask her 1st.. r u stuck on stupid right now? if u's r broken up then u need to move on .. give her--her space.. i'm sure the last thing she wants to see is ur face when she gets back.. she doesn't need that drama.. let her come home and relax.. why u wanna be all up in her face??? u don't even know if she's gonna have someone else pick her up?? how u know she ain't seeing somebody else now??
just cause ur on good terms that doesn't mean that u gotta be tryna see what her every waking move is gonna be... good terms means that ur still friends.. do u know what FRIENDS mean?
move on, don' t become a stalker....
2006-08-07 03:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who would be the more surprised one if you went to pick her up and see that 1) she is not alone ( hmmmmm guy friend with her) or 2) someone else is picking her up my advice dont try to surprise her call her and ask her if she wants you to pick her up
2006-08-07 03:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you will be welcomed, then do it. But if it will upset her, save embarrassment and wait until later - she may have changed her mind. If you push it - it might make her sure she made the right decision to break up in the first place.
2006-08-07 03:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by G1ggs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you need to surprise her? since both of you already broke up.
2006-08-07 03:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by engineerpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you guys are still in good term, why not, as a friend.
2006-08-07 03:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by seb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on wheter she broke up with you or you broke up with her. if you pick her up she mite get the wrong impression and think that you want to go back out... if you love her and want to be with her do whatever you can it hurts to lose someone you love. I WOULD KNOW:(
2006-08-07 03:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by Redneck Woman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she asks you too otherwise YOU might be in for a surprise....you are broken up after all.
2006-08-07 03:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Da you broke up you can't just glue it back
2006-08-07 03:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....... pick her up and meet the new boyfriend.
Lots of Luck
2006-08-07 03:23:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋