my ex cheated on me like over a year ago now and i still cant seem to get over it fully, it hurt so much because i thought he was in love with me-has any1 else had a similar experience?
2006-08-07 03:15:38 · 16 answers · asked by mellow yellow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes and I came to realize the relationship was going nowhere because I could not get over the cheating and felt it was best to get out of the relationship because I knew I did not trust him and without trust you have nothing. It's a hard thing to get over some people are stronger than others but I was sick and tired of always wasting time thinking about it and always wondering will he do it again. If you cannot get over it get out of it. good luck
2006-08-07 03:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by lorie01504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I havent' been cheated on but its bound to hurt, the best thing to do is try and keep yourself occupied with other things surround yourself with people that love ypu like family and friends spend a lot of ime with your closest friends because they are there for you no matter what, take a vacation, do some yoga do some meditation anything to keep you busy and not thinking about this person,as time heels, the worst thing to do would be to forgive and forget because once a cheater always a cheater and would you want to go through that again. I say forget about this person I know its easier said than done but as time goes on you will gradually begin to hee by meeting new people.
2006-08-07 03:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 01:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few months ago my bf started his 1st job he was only there 3 days and he cheated on me with the boss' daughter. We split up. He was with her 2 days and while he was with her he text kept textin me sayin when hes with her all he thinks of is me and all that s**t! so i got her number off him (with a struggle) lol, and i text her and told her what he had been saying to me. She finished with him. And then he was begging for my forgivness. We was going through a rough patch at the time which is still no excuse. It hurt me so much all i done for days was cry and cry. I was in love with him so bad. I got back with him about 2 weeks l8r. To this day i am only starting to get my tust back in him, but i suppose if you love some one then they deserve a 2nd chance. but i'll tell u if it happens again then get rid os ur gettin played for a door mat. I made lyf so hard for him when we got bk 2getha cos deep down i was still hurting lyk mad. the point is it takes a long time 2 get over some body u love cheating on u but u will get there in the end. add me if u eva need to talk logsy_babe@hotmail.com i'd love to hear from you. good luck and take care. xx
2006-08-10 05:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by logsy_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have, and it does hurt! It makes you feel pretty miserable!
It took me 2 years to completely get over my first love.
You'll get over it when you meet somebody else.
Also you may need to give it more time.
Now I've been with the same guy for 6 years, and he's lovely. I just know that he wouldn't cheat on me, so there are good guys out there. Try to forget your ex and find the "one" for you.
2006-08-08 22:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i havent been cheated on-well not by anyone that i cared for, but i can understand why youre still hurting-i love my current partner very much and feel that he loves me, if i found out hed been cheating i honestly dont think i could get my head round it because hes so loving and kind.....all you have to know is that it wasnt your fault.sadly men can be selfish and two faced and sneaky and a lot only really think about themselves....the best thing you can do is try your hardest to forget about him and get out there and have some fun and youll find someone who wont break your heart im sure...good luck
2006-08-07 03:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been cheated on, and it hurt like hell, he was being really secretive with his mobile and one day i had a look and found loads of texts from a girl at work - so i locked myself in the bathroom (he had found me looking at his phone and was screaming at me to give it back) and called her.
She thought it was him and answered it, well she got a whole load of abuse and i think i even threatened to burn down her house (I knew her, had even dropped her home from work before!)
Evidently, we did split that day, but I was only 18 so was young and naive - I am now 23 and in a very loving and trusting relationship - and am actually very good friends now with my ex!
You will get over it believe me - you just need to find that special someone to help you forget xx
2006-08-07 03:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by neen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one! If you love someone that much then just the thought of another hand on their body makes you feel sick! The best advise I can give you is that time is a healer. You will fall head over heals for someone and then forget all about it! I wish you the best of luck!
2006-08-07 03:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by In The Rat Race 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it has happen to me. It really hurt, but I realized that my ex did me a favor. If she can cheat on me, she'll cheat with the next guy. I did get some counseling, rebuilt my self esteem, and just chose to no longer talk to her. It took 6 months, but I moved on very nicely.
2006-08-07 03:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how it makes you feel. Just remember all guys arent like that. Get out more, do new things try and get him outa your head. He didnt really love you if he hurt you so bad.
F**k him show him your way over him.
It will always hurt while ever hes in there!
2006-08-07 03:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by loopy lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋