after 8 years together,alot of promises and love words,he was abroad 8 months ago,he back now,i called him at home,a gorgen woman answered and told me she's his wife.he tol;d me before that he might marry there to have the nationality.but all this 8 months,if he called and if i called he don't say any thing about that and kesp telling me a nice words.and today just 1 hour ago i dicvered that and i was chocked.i called him just now and he saied he will talk with me when we meet and he asked me if i love him,and saied he loves me so much.i'm crying now and i can't see the words im writting now from tears.every body told me that he don't deserve me all say that i'm bretty while he is not,all say that i'm a honest good person while he is not.why he lies?why he hurt me?what should i do i feel scared and empty.oh im so scared and depressed.oh god pleas hekp me.peas.some body help me pleas.i wish i would die,om idiot im stubid.right?some body tell me what kind of people am i?tell me what 2 do
2006-08-07 02:50:38 · 9 answers · asked by blue blue 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I had one of those it took me two years to move on. There are people out there that will keep others down so that they can't find their destiny.
He is selfish, He wants his wife and you. He doesn't want you but he doesn't want you to find love for yourself. He is walking all over you and you my dear are allowing him to do so.
I feel for you more than you know. Let go of him. I promise the one that you want is around the corner waiting on you to catch up.
2006-08-07 03:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Begin to walk completely in the opposite direction from this JERK! DO NOT meet with him. Do not call him, do not talk to him. Get the heck away from him. You are heartbroken and you're going to have some bad days but do not prolong them by letting this married man string you along! Listen to the smart people who have encouraged you to get away from him! You are lost now. Get found. Run girl!! God bless you and give you peace and strength. Your happiness lies within yourself and no where near this buttw!pe.
2006-08-07 10:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seek authorities and consult a mental health physician
2006-08-07 09:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Janus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, find someone better. End of story.
2006-08-07 09:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you leave him behind and never have anything to do with him again.
2006-08-07 09:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by lenny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option
2006-08-07 11:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by 000000000000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy yourself something pretty, get mad at the jerk, and move on.
2006-08-07 09:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a bit confused
2006-08-07 09:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bloody hell! leave the jerk and move on! you'll find someone that deserves you
2006-08-07 10:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Alex 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋