my girl friend is willing to give me a bj but she is scared when ever i would like her to do it?

Question

wht should i do to make her not scared?

Answer 1

don't pressure her if it's going to happen let it happen naturally!

Answer 2

Hmmm... I take it she's never done it before... I think your best bet is to not push the issue and let her decide when she feels ready to give you a BJ... Because you pressing the act upon her does nothing for the relationship you two have...

The real question is wether she is scared about it choking her, or that she won't do a good job... This may be something that you need to talk with her best friend about, and have her best friend talk to you about it... because it sounds like she needs some reassurance, but not from you dirrectally...

Answer 3

Don't ever force her to do it. If you do she won't enjoy it like you would like for her to do. First just be patient and let her get used to the idea, and then gradually break her in, even if you have to allow her to use a substitute, such as a dildo, carrot, banana or anything else such as these things. Sometimes a female has to work at it, and believe me, it is more work than us guys know about. There is plenty of time, so when she gets her own style down to her (and of course your) likeing then she will be ready to do it anytime, and if she loves you, without hesitation. She will enjoy doing it for you and not to you. Yes, there is a difference. And of course this goes both ways. You giveing it to her as well. Try it you will like it. If not there shouldn't be any hard feelings, because it isn't for everybody. But at least try it a few times before you decide.

Answer 4

Where are you asking her to do it ? In your parents house. While they're home. Try a deserted drive inn. Bring an adult mag and show her some scenes. Take a shower before going out. Tell her you wont tell anyone about it. Stick with your promise. Go down on her first. That might stimulate her enough to lose her inhibitions. She needs to see a porno where she can learn what to do from the pros.

Answer 5

1. Stop pressuring her.
2. Shave your pubes down. Not baby smooth, just get all the wild hairs under control.
3. Wash yourself. Then wash yourself again before you go to bed.
4. When all is happy, ask her if she's thought about doing it. And tell her you won't c*me in her mouth. And then don't do it (if you do, she won't do it again). If she rejects you, then go back to step 1.

Answer 6

Have you considered castration? Or how about maybe just finishing Jr. High and moving towards becoming an adult before pretending at being one?

Answer 7

I sorta had something similar...eventually she will just do it and after that she wont be nervous about it....if you want to speed of the process...I'd say as everyone else said, go down on her. I wouldn't be suprised if she gives you head immediatly afterwords...good luck!

Answer 8

you can always do it in the dark. But is she scared because she doesn't know how to do it? pratise makes perfect. trust me I know. I was really bad the first time, now I love to give them, because I'm so much better than when I first started. practise practise pratise

Answer 9

Just make her feel special and caress her a lot before she goes down on you. and then tell her whether or not you want her to swallow and if not make sure she understands that she can pull away when it gets close.

Answer 10

try whip cream and turn the lights off! She obviously scared of something!

Answer 11

Dress it up like a little man. Tell her your are putting on a puppet show and would like her participation.