i am 22 yr old guy who is in lov with a classmate of mine who studies with me in college..i know her from the past one month..i hav come across many girls in my life and i have never had this kind of feelings for anybody..she is the first girl in my life and i really love her a lot..but how will i go and tell her..if i tell her without knowing much abt her, i am sure she wud deny it..i am just trying to msg her and know more abt her but she is not showing any kind of interest towards me..whenever i send a msg to her she never replies back but she replies for others who msg her..i am a kind of a guy who wud not like to lose my self-esteem by going behid a girl and begging her to like me or love me..but i want to do somthing and make her mine..i really luv her and i wud wish to marry her but i think this is very soon for me to open up..wat shd i do to make her like me?..i am a very silent guy who doesn't spk much with girls..i wud really appreciate if sombody wud com fwd and help me.
2006-08-07 02:47:23 · 7 answers · asked by bryan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have any common friends..? You cud ask him/her to help u out u no...like ...go out fer sum group movie or sumthing....and ask tht friend to invite her...n then when everyones together u cud kinda hang out with her ...get to know her n stuff.....
just dont make it luk deliberate...make it luk casualll....
and stopp messaging her if she isnt replying....giving too much attention makes u luk needy...:p
2006-08-07 02:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by unicorn_blud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if u don't talk with her she'll never know u and a MSG isn't what a girl want........why not u try 2 be her friend and know her to know if she is what u want
be friendly cos any one will be in love with u if u don't try to talk a small
2006-08-07 10:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to beg her to love you...just find a way that feels right to you that lets her know that you do care about her as more than just a study partner or whatever maybe things will work out and that would be great but if they don't then don't let it get to you there are so many other girls...there's bound to be at least one that's right for you
2006-08-07 09:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be getting way ahead of yourself "Marriage" you don't really even know this girl maybe if you don't push so hard and seem so desperate she will come to you or you need to approach her and ask her for a date but please don't get as heavy as you did in your question with her because you might just scare her away. Good luck
2006-08-07 10:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by lorie01504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think, in this situation, if u really love the girl, try to do thing step by step...
u cannot expect her to love u in a blink of one eye,right?
so, for me, i think try to be friend with her...
if suitable, don't express your feelings first,
i've experienced one and the guy doesn't love me and we hadn;t talk for 3 years...
that's really hurt. so, i think u just have to be friends with her.. i think, one day, she'll appreciate ur presence in her life n will accept u...
2006-08-07 10:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by ainur n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and don't try so hard goo with the flow
2006-08-07 09:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by laceygurl29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her, ok! somebody is destined for you!
2006-08-07 09:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by Angela D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋