I was in a relationship with this girl and I told her I was going out of town for a couple of weeks. She told me she did not want me to go but I had to. So when I got back heard from her bestfriend and a couple of my buddies that she cheated on me with one of my buddies at a party. But when I ask her, she said she didnt go to the party. If a man buy you anything you want and keeps you happy, why lie and be unfaithful and break his heart.
2006-08-07 02:36:00 · 19 answers · asked by Sir Yahoo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people seem to be allergic to the truth. It's like if they are honest, their faces will swell and they will break out into hives. And, it's not just females. I have met quite a few males who wouldn't know the truth if it walked up to them and shook their hand. Honesty is something that sometimes takes a lot of courage and some people are cowards. Buying a person things doesn't guarantee loyalty because real love and dedication are absolutely FREE. She probably lied because she didn't want you to find out that she is a whore. Why else would she have chosen to mess around with one of your "buddies"? She is not a good GF and you need to rethink your "buddy". They both are trifling losers who don't deserve your allegiance.
2006-08-07 02:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men lie just as much if not more. But don't lump all females into this category. I'm an honest person and would never ever cheat on anyone. I've been cheated on by 2 guys and it's the crappiest feeling ever. I think you should judge the person, not the fact that she's a female. She's just a bad person and a liar. And so are a lot of guys. But my current bf is not that way. I know it's hard when you've been burnt, but there are plenty of nice girls out there who do NOT lie. Find one and tell the other girl to get lost.
2006-08-07 02:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females lie to get their way. I quote from you 'If a man buy you anything you want and keeps you happy...', this doesn't necessarily make a woman happy. Perhaps you've been piling this girl with loads of gifts and you think that's enough to maintain a relationship. Truth is, it merely gives the girl the impression you are playing the role of a 'sugar daddy'. And to fulfill her other needs, she goes 'galavanting'.
She could have lied because either she didn't want to lose you or it's habitual for her to lie. But don't rejoice too soon when I say 'she couldn't bear to lose you'...it may simply mean she still saw you useful for her.
You need to do away with two myths: 1) All women lie. 2) Men can satisfy their women as long as they buy the women loads of stuff.
2006-08-07 02:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she not want you to go out of town? Did she think you were cheating? If so, maybe she was doing it to get back at you. Also, just because a man buys you anything you want, doesn't mean you love him and want to be committed to him. Find someone who loves you for who you are and not what you can buy her.
2006-08-07 02:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because this woman wasn't worth your time or effort, and this woman is a lowlife. You don't deserve her.
Not all females lie. This particular female is one of the few who do. Don't judge all females because of your experiences with her. Most of us are good women who want to be in a relationship but don't get the chance to.
Break up with her and start new and fresh...she doesn't deserve a good man like you.
2006-08-07 02:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by anu_dew2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not only females it males to so get your facts straight .......... some people are just meant to be bad no matter what you do or say to them if they want to cheat they will you should just get rid of her and find someone who is deserving of you.
Please make sure your buddies are telling the truth sometimes your own friends can't stand to see you happy and they would do anything to break you all up and if they are telling the truth ditch her sorry a**
2006-08-07 02:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is a sex addict and knew that she would have a hard time waiting that long to see you again. I bet she was always a wild thing when she was with you, right? You guys need to learn that you can't have it both ways. You can have a good faithful woman who is a little boring, or a wild girl who will not be tamed. Pick one.
2006-08-07 02:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all girls lie but her her to lie to u she was not true to u should make u sit and their about why would she do this maybe u were not pleaseing for in bed money and gifts are just things i would really think about this really
2006-08-07 02:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by vampgirl_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don;t know why but i never lie so it not all the females and maybe she was feel alone and it your false to for leave her like that and also it doesn;t mean that she can cheated on you
2006-08-07 02:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple: she was drunk, she wanted some fun, she is now regretting it, she doesn't want to face the consequences, so she lies and hopes you'll believe her.
not only girls do that! girls and guys lie about that stuff, and its usually a sign that they think they can get away with it. you and your girl got some serious talking to do.
2006-08-07 02:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by peakfreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋