I'm interested because there have been loads of answers to an earlier question on this subject. What do you see as good or bad about it?
2006-08-07 02:32:29 · 15 answers · asked by rationalist 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've thought about it.. having sex is pleasurable and making $$ would allow u to pay ur bills if u have some seriously high ones.. it's wrong because society says it's wrong..
if ur sleeping w/multiple men, whose business is that? if ur getting paid for it, whose business is that? whose vagina is it?
when ur in a relationship rather it be short/long term ur getting gifts, and $$ and ur having sex--what's the difference??
i think if u don't broadcast it, be on the streets, or do it in a brothel than u should be okay.. just be careful and use protection as u would if u were in a relationship...
everyone has an opinion about something but only urs matter..
2006-08-07 02:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all goes by quickly to get 40 bucks far a hand job, or a Felicio or sex. But it doesn't feel great after you stop and realize what the exchange of money really does to you. to know that this wasn't a mistake but more like a knowingly harm to your dignity for money. its pain and shame you carry with you forever and nothing can take it away or replace it as long as you know you exist. you don't have to stand in the streets to be a hooker. its not about what others say or not. But about how you will have to carry this burden with you, believe me its not something anyone who wants to lead a peaceful happy life would want to risk doing and trying. if you want to live without secrets its not something you want to do.
2006-08-07 09:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by barbarita811 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seem to remember your mum expressed a keen interest in trying it as a vocation, but she was concerned she couldn't make a living at it. I suppose for some, they might pay their way through university and or become more literate by not using obnoxious American expressions. I for one have never had to pay for sex (maybe this is why you are so interested in the subject yourself, it gets costly, no?)....
2006-08-07 23:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If lonly it will happen eventually as girls only like non needy guys so if you dont get dates they dont want you as you aint getting any... daft that.
If you are going to do it do it right...
Ie not with a junkie despirate deseased street hooker probably pushed around by a pimp or other pimped or forced trafficed girl... ie avoid foreign girls who can't speak good english etc...
go to a country where it legal and regulated and the girls are looked after by law...
ie Germany...
This appears best in the FKK clubs like (they advertise them openly say on taxi doors)
Which transaltes as nudist clubs which is what they are like with 10 to 100 naked girls wandering around...
the venue makes its money from entry fees from boths, more from the girls as they are there to earn and the rest is between people at regualted prices. Far safer for the girls and more relaxed and clean and safe for all... Plus if you dont want to do it you could just chill out in the garden, jaquzzi, q up for dinner (nude dinner qu would be funny), take a sauna and admire the view by the swimming pool etc...
Seems the norm,...
example
http://fkk-oase.de/en/home.htm
Has limo service if you wish
http://www.fkk-world.de/
http://www.the-palace.de/index_en.php
Warning the links do contain nudity so over 18s
Dont see them if you dont want to be upset but no explicit nasty stauff as far as Im aware.
No probs from the law, the girls get the cash, safe and cool for all.
Plus er you get surrounded by naked chicks
2006-08-07 12:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did it for a while too. Allowed me to have non-committal sex with men. Interesting to see what people demand when they are paying for something!
Its a service industry. It can be gross, but you are making serious money, and so long as you are safe..... don't see the harm in it!
2006-08-07 09:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by ticklemonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who does this line of work, she's in it for the money to support a habit (wink wink). I don't see her much these days as I don't approve of the habit.
I tried it myself for a few weeks to clear a few debts, but it totally F***** up my head and had to stop and go get counselling!!
2006-08-07 09:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not saying i have but i know girls and lads who sleep around freely with anyone and IF i was that way inclined then yes i would make them pay!
2006-08-07 09:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by loopy lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt mind having a go at lap dancing just for the fun of it!! :o)
2006-08-07 09:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by passionate_angel101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way,lots of girls get attacked,etc its dangerous
2006-08-07 10:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did!
Have sex AND be paid for it!!!!!
Why is the job frowned upon??
I would like to have chosenb the clients to tho :-)
2006-08-07 11:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by Baz94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋