How should I break the news to my parents
2006-08-07 02:21:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You Both should sit down together and talk with your parents as well as hers.Tell them that you accept full responsibility and that you both are willing to make a short term goal say within the next six months that you are willing to try and find a place of your own. If your parents truly love you this news will bring much happiness and joy and they will be willing to do as much as they can to help you and support you!!!! Hope that everything goes well Best wishes!!!!
2006-08-07 02:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best way I think that you should tell them is, invite your girl friend over to your house and have your parents there of course. All of you set down and tell your parents that you have something that you want to tell them. Then say, (your girlfriends name) and I are going to have a baby, your grandchild. If they are understanding parents they should except this. They might be up set at first by the shock of it but they will calm down soon and except what has happened. You can do the same thing with her parents as well.
If you don't have a job yet, I would suggest that you get one soon as baby's are not cheap. At least she is 18 now, a legal adult. Please do your responsibility of being a good father. And good luck to you, your girlfriend and baby.
2006-08-07 02:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a mother of a ten year old son ....... be gentle I'm trying to put myself in their place and i feel like crying this will devastate them,i don't know you're folks so i cant predict how they will react,but i know how i would i would go and tell her parents and try to find a common middle ground so the unborn child will have a happy family and loving environment.and one more thing if you don't have a job you had better find one babies are really expensive.good luck you are gonna need it.
2006-08-07 02:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 08:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break it to them gently. If you were man enough to have sex then you should be man enough to talk to your parents. You better start acting like a father and start taking responsibility (also you might want to get yourself a J-O-B)
2006-08-07 02:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by BlueLantern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them, sometimes there's no way but being straight forward about it. I know the way I felt when I had to tell my mother.... talk about the most nerve wrenching thing I ever had to do in my whole life.
2006-08-07 02:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on Jerry Springer
2006-08-07 02:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG Y THE HELL DID U GET HER PREGNATE WELL UR IN FOR A RIDE U HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF THE BABY BUT TELL UR PARENTS THAT..... WELL I DONT KNO BUT GOOD LUCK
2006-08-07 02:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh-oh....be mature and tell them like it is......I hope you plan to support your gf, and the baby. She may want to give it up for adoption especially if you don't marry her but please don't marry her just because she is pregnant that may be the end of your marriage. But if you truly do love her, be there for her, give her all the compassion and understanding she needs. Now's the time to be a MAN!!!
2006-08-07 02:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them right after the part where you get a job and are moving out...
2006-08-07 02:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋