2006-08-07 01:10:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does that mean he's using me to get to them or is he just not interested in me?
2006-08-07 01:15:11 · update #1
Dump him....and quick!
2006-08-07 01:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be trying to get to know your friends. You may think he only asks about the pretty ones, but that may be your own insecurities asking. You need to look at the big picture. How long you have been together, is this just starting, does he try to go out with these pretty Friends without you? Like I said before, he may be trying to be a part of your friends, Men always say and most women agree, that if a chicks friends don't like him ,he has no chance with you.
2006-08-07 01:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by {Lisa} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because he wants to hang out with your friends. Maybe he doesn't want to feel like something you're hiding from them or maybe he just wants to feel like he's part of your life. Why would he want you -all- to hang out if he was looking to hook up with them? Do you think he figures you won't notice he's humping your friend in front of you? Get over your insecurities, he's dating you not them, there's got to be some reason for that more than your failure to introduce him to the people closest to you in your life. If you really don't trust him why are you dating him?
2006-08-07 01:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to be saying this but honestly, i think that he's just using you for him to get closer to your pretty friends. i mean, what other reason is there when he keeps on insisting on hanging out with them. maybe he thought that if he cant have them (your pretty friends), then better pass through the easiest catch. so i suggest that you confront him about this and ask him for his honest reasons why he keeps on wanting to hang out with all the others when he could just be contented hanging out with ONLY you...anyway, you're his girlfriend and not them. shouldn't he be busy making plans of being with you rather than with your other friends? or rightly so, break up with that shallow boyfriend of yours. he doesnt deserve you not one bit. you're beautiful girl..and you deserve the best, and sadly he's not the best there is.
2006-08-07 01:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been out of dating for two years. I would probably do the same. Maybe he sees it best to hang as a group. Anyway, ask him. Get him to listen to you. I'm trying to get someones attention as well.
2006-08-07 01:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by jaxonjo333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT LET THEM MEET!!
He is using you to get to his friends. Also do not tell your friends about the great things he does for you because he just tryin to make them jealosu of you. Its make it easier for him to gain access to them after he breaks up with you. Take it from me. I have done this before and i know how much you are going to hurt when he dates your friends. End it with him as soon as you can. Trust me.
2006-08-07 01:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants to get closer to your friends through you. He more than likely has his eyes on one or more of them and plans to utilize your friendship with them as a opener for himself. His intentions do not seem good. He might try to hook up with one of your friends. Your instincts are right. He is not to be trusted. Be careful when investing your heart with him.
2006-08-07 01:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because as a man he wants to get it on with them. The best way is to first be friends while you're there so they think they and trust him. later to meet up with them when you're not around, they'lll think he's ok and he flirt to start then move on to touching etc.
2006-08-07 01:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by SHINDOR K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he just likes the company of girls a lot. I know I do. But its equally possible that he's interested in one of them and is playing you to get to her.
2006-08-07 01:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by keith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is interested in your pretty friends. I say dump him, because he will dump you and go for your pretty friends. So, dump him as soon as possible or you will get hurt badly
2006-08-07 01:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by nnnbbbxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is interested in one of them.
2006-08-07 01:14:07 · answer #11 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋