I know what you're thinking, the guy's jerk and i should move on
BUT THAT'S NOT THE END OF THE STORY!
we just started a relationship like 3 days ago. this guy just got a new job and he's still adapting to it... but he doesn't contact me that much anymore since he got a new job! All he ever does in contacting me was just wo wish me goodnight everyday... Would a girl be satisfied with just that? i'm not!
how busy can a guy get anyway, until he doesn't have the time to just ask how's my day?
I'm just wondering why would a guy behave this way, please help. it hurts a lot and the relationship's really new. and I also wonder whut i should do. i'm keen on playing hard to get in return to that behaviour and not respond to him at all... he deserves that.
2006-08-07 01:00:26 · 5 answers · asked by Miss_Perfect 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's what i meant, it only takes a few minutes to tell they're ok. this behavious is highly unusual and highly suspicious! it gets me crazy thinking why!
2006-08-07 01:11:09 · update #1
well shalini has a good point there too. gosh i really don't know now
2006-08-07 01:13:06 · update #2
and that's the hard part about being a girl. we're supposed to look all tough and cool, emotionless pretty things who don't fret just because the guy don't contact you. i don't want to be clingy, i know it's a turn off. but when it hits you and u feel upset he doesn't contact you, it sux. cuz u gotta feel it and yet ur not supposed to show it that ur upset!
2006-08-07 01:21:02 · update #3
l would be careful if i were you, you may get hurt. my boyfriend use to be like that, he would be not contact me and would act all wierd, i just couldnt take it,it frustrated me and then i plucked up the courage and told him exactly how i felt about his behavior and we sat down and had a long heart to heart and broiught everything out in the open and now we have been going out for almost 3 years.
communication girlfriend is the key to any relationship.
goodluck to you hey!! hope everything works out
2006-08-07 01:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You might want to watch out for that one,I have been here and when they are using the job as an excuse,you can bet something else is going on,it only takes a couple of minutes to tell someone how important they are and how much they are loved
2006-08-07 01:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look it is his new job so he might be working hard to build a rappo.u should consider tis fact or rather the best thing wil be u ask him the reason for his action,u know at times we think al sort of negative things wen matters r realy very simple,so talking openly wl help.lay down ur apprehensions in front of him but analyse his answer properly for tere u wl gt to know if he realy cares fr u or is trying to avoid u.
2006-08-07 01:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by shalini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three days? Stop being so needy and clingy. That's a HUGE turn-off for guys.
2006-08-07 01:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by misslabeled 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and im usually busy, but i still get time for my loved ones (family, friends, lover) , but i contact them everyday more than once, so they are satified.
@(^_^)@
2006-08-07 01:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by silent-guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋