ok i try put all the details in theis time so i can get more info. Ok my mom had a child at a early age a saw best to give the child up.she has never hid this from me and told me from a young age i've asked her wouldnt she like to see him again but she feels if he wants to see her that the address of the adoption is still the family home. other wise she doesnt want to invade his new life.but she has told me she wouldnt have a problem if i choice look for him. i have his orginal birth certificate and the birth mothers details. the area of where the adoption happen and when it happen. i had a great email before that told me the info i needed but my account got closed.i know something like i have to contact social service to find out which and so on. and once i have his adopted name and parents name i can try things like voting list or on address. but i would like anymore info that could help.
2006-08-07 00:57:54 · 6 answers · asked by nero_drago 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
the office that dealt with it is no long there i think the close in the late 70's i was told that all records are send to a certain place where the parent could write to and ask for the details of adoption
2006-08-07 02:41:45 · update #1
It depends when the adoption took place. If it was a UK adoption before 1974, there's all sorts of red tape, the adoptee has to find you, you cannot go looking for them, all you can really do it put yourself on the National Adoption Contact Register. If it's after that, then yes, you'll need to run name searches against the census, voting lists etc. The person adopted may also be trying to find you, so try Genesreunited.co.uk also
2006-08-07 01:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Stephen H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the agency that your mother used for adoption and talk to them about it. They may contact them for you if they are over 18 and see if they want to meet you. It worked for me.
Once you have the adopted name you can use:
Yahoo! people search has helped me find many people.
Putting their name in quotes then into a search engine can give valuable clues.
Looking for them on Classmates.com is another good avenue.
2006-08-07 08:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN TRACE YOUR ADOPTED BOTHER,IT BECAME LEGAL FOR RELATIVES OF ADOPTED CHILDREN TO FIND THEM LAST DECEMBER.YOU SHOULD CONTACT THE ADOPTION SUPPORT AGENCY.TEL 0121-666-6014,THEIR OFFICE IS IN BIRMINGHAM,UK.THEY WILL TAKE DETAILS AND TELL YOU WHAT THEY CAN DO TO HELP,THEY ARE A FREE ORGANISATION,BUT YOU MUST BE PATIENT AS SOME TIMES IT TAKES A LONG TIME TO FIND SOMEONE AND THERE MAY BE A STOP ON THE FILE AS SOME PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO BE FOUND.THEY WILL NOT GIVE YOU HIS ADOPTED NAME OR HIS ADDRESS AS IT HAS TO BE HANDLED BY THEM.I AM AT PRESENT TRYING TO TRACE MY OWN HALF BROTHER SO I KNOW HOW DIFFICULT IT IS.GOOD LUCK TO YOU,I HOPE YOU ARE SUCCESSFUL.
2006-08-07 16:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by AMANDA G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls let sleeping dogs lie. Do not upset the child, the adopted parents and yourself. Engage in something else. Pardon me.
2006-08-07 08:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Preciousandhonest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adoption is tricky, go and see the local branch and plead with them.-
2006-08-07 08:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff2smart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry no idea on how that works
2006-08-07 08:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋