When me and my boyfriend have s-e-x he always has to be on top because I can't keep him in while I'm on top. I feel bad because he always has to do all the work. Do you have any suggestions on this?
2006-08-07 00:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by clueless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firstly yes this is normal.
Secondly this has happened to me before. I'm afraid there isn't a whole lot you can do but experiment with different positions until you find one with which you both enjoy.
try having him sit on a chair with no arms, and sit on top then. I find it easier to control how far and how fast I move compared to when I'm laying down.
In any case good luck and remember to talk to him about it, just try not to do the talking in the bedroom as it tends to deflate there egos....
2006-08-07 00:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by bundamba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably has to do with the motion you're using. I myself have this problem on occasion, and i'm fairly long so thats not the issue. The problem is that usuallly girls tend to get a bit carried away and rise up too far off. I would suggest a few things:
1. Instead of bouncing up and down, try grinding your hips in a circular motion
2. Adjust the position so that your legs are streched out towards his head. This limits the distance you can lift yourself off
3. Try turning around so that your back is to him, and bend forward towards his feet. The angle of entry should make it a easier to keep him in you.
Best of Luck!
2006-08-07 00:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by aoshi_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this, while on top instead of going up and down, try grinding your clitty down into his pelvic bone. I have tried that with some women and they had mind blowing/gushing orgasms. It was a huge turn on to see them get off that way. Also, from what I understand, this is only normal with small or limp penises. But this should help with those problems too
2006-08-07 01:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try it like:
Your on top whhile he is laying down, you sit on him but bend over as well so your heads are next to each other you can grind at the same time as he is going in and out of you, just make sure you dont lift yourself just gind while on top.
Might work but might not just a suggestion.
Hope all works out
2006-08-07 00:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by Natalie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.......stop braodcasting the fact that A. you have a huge vagina or B. he has a tiny penis. Im sure he would love to read this posted on the internet. Besides if that is the biggest issue in your relationship build a bridge and get over it.
2006-08-07 00:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by answering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No specific abnormality could be pointed as long as you both enjoy the moments. Situation could be brought under control by practice also. Anyway, don't feel bad.
2006-08-07 00:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have'nt developed fully, you need to quit havin sex till you fully develope.
That may take about 5 years, get some more education, then try having sex
2006-08-07 00:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while you are on top relax......ride him slowly....instead of being on your knees place your legs straight out toward his head and ride like that it is kinda hard to explain ,,,,good luck
2006-08-07 00:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by my4boyz1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No clue!!!
Yeah got 2 more points
2006-08-07 00:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by Moy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be more flexible when u r on the top
more faster
2006-08-07 00:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by dina_sas80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋