i think she hates me not hate me but kind of that...
i m disappointed with her behaviour.now i m hating her 2.
plz help me 2 keep my relation cool.
2006-08-07 00:30:24 · 8 answers · asked by snow white 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hate??!? that's a strong word.
and i completly understand what u mean u thinking that your mom hates you.,..i have the same situation with my mom. i think she hates me too. i bet sometimes u feel as if she's the best mom and sometime totally the opposite...i ditto that.
what my mom's me to do is follow everything she orders...but just for making our relationship better i do that..but i figured that, that doesn't help our relationship either. she just never seems happy..so i do what i want to do. so just do what u feel is right...follow her or not follow her rules..she's gonna be mad no matter what, so u might as well do what u want and stay happy..
thts my advice to u...not the best one but yet can help a little.
good luck though
2006-08-07 01:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true mother never hates her child no matter what,she may disagree,be disappointed but never ever hate-life is to short and there is way to much hate in this world,take this situation,turn it around,get rid of the hate and bring back the love,if something would happen tomorrow and one of you did not take the action to correct this problem then you will both regret it
2006-08-07 00:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but I think every girl feels that way about her mother at one time or another. When I was young my mother and I fought all the time and practically hated one another. Now that I am grown and have children of my own I see things differently and my mother and I have become best friends. The most important thing I think is for you to be honest with your mother and talk to her as if she is a person LOL. I believe she will be grateful to you for treating her this way. Please don't ever say you hate your mother. If you would like to talk further you can contact me.
2006-08-07 00:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum may get upset with you at times thats normal. But her love for youis unconditional, she will always be there for you, she brought you in to this world and has raised you hasnt she. If your mum is doing something you dont like talk to her tell her its up setting you, or talk to a family member about it they may be able to help. Spend some time with her she may have troubles and is taking them out on you. Its known you always hurt the ones closest to you. Make her a cup of tea when she seems down , help her out and just let her know you love her.
2006-08-07 00:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very easy to be angry with one's parents. no matter how we behave they are the only people who will stand by us always. they forgive all our faults easily. this is most common in all cases very rarely are they the unforgiving sorts.
the way u hesitate after saying she hates u just proves that u arent sure. it may have been an on the spur of the moment reaction for her, same as for u perhaps. maybe the situation was such that both of u reacted by saying harsh words to eachother. but believe u me, just go & give her a big hug & tell her how much u love her. see the transition on her face & even u will feel so wonderful after that.
cherish your parents they wont be there forever with u!
2006-08-07 00:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is only father and mother in the world who support you in every stage in your life if your mother hates you and she is disappointed with you dont hate your mother it makes your relation bad love your mother respect your mother as posiible as you can bye dear
2006-08-07 00:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by dinesh g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just think she hate you.Maybe you need to sat down and talk to her and let her know how you feel about things.
2006-08-07 00:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, we have the same problem with my dad. i think you should have a vacation with your family, because when we go to phil, we have so much fun and you will forget problem with your mom.
2006-08-07 00:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by john mark b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋