i love the guy that has broken my heart. i think of sex constantly - and mostly just of having it with him. i live in the same town as him and i dont want to hurt him anymore than i have already. this has been my fault and i just dont know whether waiting for him is the way to go. i do know the other guys are hot but i am just not feeling the same draw to them as i have to him. help me please and dont just say to get over it - if i could i would have by now!
2006-08-07 00:26:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i honestly think that you should not be with those 3 other guys. what i mean is... you're still hurting deep inside and you still love the guy who has broken your heart. to be with those other 3 guys is to be unfair and dishonest both to them and also to yourself. you will not be giving those other 3 guys justice if you go out with them and yet you dont have feelings for them. you dont want something like this to happen to you too, right? so dont do that to them also because even though they're like that (you say--hot), they're also human beings and concurrently have feelings. if you cant get over the guy who just broke your heart, then try to pamper and love yourself a little bit more by allowing your heart some time to heal from your brokenheartedness before you pursue with other guys. and if you still want that guy who broke your heart back, then try showing him that even though you're not together anymore, that you still care about him. maybe then he'll "un-break" your heart, if i may say. goodluck to you!
2006-08-07 00:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You say he broke your heart and in the same breathe say it was your fault,first of all identify the problem,then analyze whether or not it can be fixed,if it can but may take some time,if you really love him you will allow that time,if it cant and is beyond repair,then move on,but only with caution
2006-08-07 00:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey you may have to forget about him especially if your actions was the reason for the breakup. You can try to make things better with your love--persistance may pay off. Try talking to him. If he won't talk to you, write him a letter--he will have to listen, unless he chooses not to read it.
2006-08-07 03:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by O.K.Q.T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever been to restaurant and can't decide what to get-then u see combo/sampler platter? try a lil of everything, never know what you'll like. Sometimes your old favorite is replaced by new thing, sometimes old fav. is best, but gotta least try other "dishes"
LOL-be good, but not too good girl
2006-08-07 00:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello the only way you will get over him is to go meet someone else but only if your sure he is not gonna come back to you.
2006-08-07 00:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by brian.waltz@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with any unkess ur sure than ur really healed from the inside
2006-08-07 02:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by len 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes i think so give it a shot
2006-08-07 00:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-07 00:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you lost it......dont look back
2006-08-07 00:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by shorthotgirl_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋