its just a shock, because we are just teenagers and she desides me.. of all people to come out to. im just all over the place and i just dont know how our friendship will be after this
2006-08-06 22:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by Nkay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Other than you now knowing that your friend is a lesbian, has anything else changed? Isn't she exactly the same person now as she was before she told you? The only thing that has changed is your perception of her. You should be glad that she felt comfortable sharing her sexual orientation with you. She obviously believes that you are a good friend of hers. Now, the question is - will you behave like one?
2006-08-06 22:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Perplexed Music Lover 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If your friendship is real then her coming out to you shouldn't change anything. Her sexual preference doesn't make her a bad person. If you liked her before then you'll like her now.
2006-08-07 05:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by hollysjuicypatootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u better not support such an act of ur friend...whom do u better cal ur true FRIEND?...the one who supports u at ur right act and more important put s u at the right track if u choose the wrong one......so u better play ur true part let her know where she is and where she should b..instead of following her up.......and if it does not work.......better quit ur relationship.
2006-08-07 05:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by happy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happened to me.. if you're uncomfortable with it, let her know. do your best to try and get used to it. let her know that you still care for her and that she's still your friend regardless and that she has your support. It's just gonna get a little used to it.
It gets easier as time goes on....
2006-08-07 05:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Parkster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at her condition right now and as being her friend,you should be one of those who will support her.. be not one of those people who are criticizing her right now for her revelations..
2006-08-07 05:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by zimran!!.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its ok to have frens who are les and still hang out. unless they intrude your privacy. but of coz you can let them know that you're not comfy wif intimacy wif them other than frenship.
2006-08-07 05:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by dovett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course(my opinion)its ok if u dont support her but atleast dont neglect her
2006-08-07 05:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by facts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would totally trip me out,it would take some getting used to,as long as they kept to themselves i would cautiously
2006-08-07 05:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by james j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ? she is still your friend, does not matter what she wants
2006-08-07 05:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, tell her to hit up the closet
2006-08-07 05:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋