Is the only way you will love me is if I am rich? You will not marry me since I am ugly, so what if I were rich? Ok, I am poor, guess that you will never love me. Your loss.
2006-08-06 21:35:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do you think you are ugly? Are you in poor physical condition too? You may be suffering from esteem issues.
My girlfriend whom Ive been with for 3 years thinks she is ugly and not good enough for me and all that crap. And it isnt because she wants to hear me tell her otherwise. I say it ALL the time how beautiful she is and how great of a person she is (which makes her more beautiful by far) and she denies it, she tells me "No, I am not." Money wont buy love. You just be patient honey and don't get all bitter on the world. You'll find a love more special than most. I promise.
2006-08-06 21:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww that is sad - I never fall in love or date someone based on looks alone at all. It is not so much looks as the way they express themselves, the way I see them look around and take things in - something unique and special. The passion in their voice when they talk about something they love - their eyes and the way their hands and touch make my body feel.
If this seems to be a problem for you- these shallow people, don't lose hope - they are the wrong people and if this is how they are - why r u sad=( cause who wants them anyway.
Looks fade, money gets spent and it is what is in someone's mind, heart and soul that is eternal - that never fades or dies.. That is true wealth - not money - nothing else.
It is their loss - you're right.
2006-08-07 04:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just as easy marrying a rich guy as it is poor. You have to have a job, home, food on the table, pay the bills and whatnots...Why be poor? Why should anyone be poor? I worked for what i have, i worked hard, so i wouldnt marry someone with less than i do. Plain and simple
2006-08-07 04:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel badly for you. You obviously don't love yourself very much. True love is not based on looks or money. It starts as friendship and then it takes root and grows. You can and will find love. But you must love yourself first. I think talking to a counselor would help you. If you feel unlovable, then you come across that way. I wish you luck. Find some things you like to do. Excel in them build your confidence. Don't give up.
2006-08-07 04:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR LOOKING IN THE WRONG PLACES ! NOT ALL GIRLS THINK MEN ARE FAB IF THEY HAVE MONEY !
LIKE ME I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND HES AN ARTIST ,DOES HE MAKE ALLOT OF MONEY NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
DO I CARE NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
DO I MAKE MONEY YES !
BUT DOES IT MATTER NOOOOOOOOO!!
ITS THE LIFE AND CHEMISTRY THAT WE SHARE , I SUPPORT HIM IN WHAT HE DOES AND SO HE SUPPORTS ME IN WHAT I DO !! THAT'S WHAT MATTERS TO US BOTH !
IF YOU KEEP LOOKING FOR THE BAD YOU'LL NEVER FIND THE GOOD THAT PEOPLE HAVE TO OFFER !!!
LOOK PAST THE LOOKS AND LOOK DEEPER !
US WOMAN ARE NOT MONEY GRABBING WITCHES !
YOU'LL SOON REALIZE THAT YOU'VE BEEN LOOKING IN THE WRONG PLACE !
:) GOOD LUCK
2006-08-07 04:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by lelanilama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moneynot not = love
2006-08-07 04:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by willjw17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over your self pls
2006-08-07 05:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋