SHOULD U RUN AWAY IF UR MOM FOUND OUT U Were HAVIN SEX WIT UR BOYFRIEND...IM 17 LOST IT AT 17?

Question

SHE SAID SHE LOST TRUST IN ME CUZ I DIDNT COME TO HER FIRST...BUT IT WUS UNCOMFORTABLE.....WUT CAN I DO RUN AWAY SUMWHERE NOT LIVE WIT HER...WHICH WOULD BE HARD....OR STAY HERE HELP HER THROUGH FINANCIAL STUFF BUT HOW AM I STAY WIT MY MAN?

Answer 1

Please stay with your mom. She is the one who is always going to love you no matter what. Boys come and go in your life but she will always be there.

Answer 2

Get an education and learn that "wit" and "wus" is not proper English. I'm surprised you'd even THINK of going off with some guy at age 17. Your mother needs to smack you across the head. Your mom is probably just worried because she doesn't want you to become a young mother and she wants you to do well in school and go onto college. This guy isn't your life. If he REALLY loves you, he'll actually encourage you to go to school as well.

Answer 3

i personally don't think you should run away. having sex is not the end of the world. what you should consider doing from now on is to have a honest relationship with your mom no matter how uncomfortable it is. if ya'll had a good relationship before then that shouldn't be hard. as for your man you are young and one thing you will realise when you get a bit older is that men come and go. the sex may feel good now but later when you don't have a secure future and a good education then all you will have to offer your "boyfriend" is sex. focus on your education don't get carried away with sex and use a condom. good luck.

Answer 4

Gud question. U see i went thru the same thing couple of years back. My mom was so angry and dissapointed. And NO dont run away from home, there is no need to. Talk to her, be open and honest. Say that he forced u to do it. Say that u apologize. She may still hate u for a week or so. But after that she will forget. A mothers love is unconditional.

Answer 5

You should just stay with your mom. You only have one more year to go till 18 and that will fly like nothing so don't worry. I kinda sorta was in the same boat you are in. Just say you are going out with your friends so you can see him and then when you move out, you won't have to worry about your parents' opinion on your relationship. But to forewarn you, if you lost it to the same person you are with, you probably aren't meant to be anyways so when you are 18, go party, clubbing, and have a ball while you can okay!! Good luck girlie!!!

Answer 6

running away may seem like an easy solution to not deal with mom, but it's not the solution. explain to her you felt uncomfortable and that's why you didn't tell her. the reality is that many ppl your age have sex and that you were protected (please tell me you were). mom can't tell you who your friends or boyfriend will be...it is not for her to decide. i've been in a similar situation as you and i just kept my ground with my parents....i stayed with the guy but lived at my parent's place still and helped out as much as i could to earn back their trust.

Answer 7

Im 17 & my mom knows that I have sex. She was mad at first, but now she isn't.

Answer 8

running away never solves anything...just try talking to her...you obviously cant go back in time and erase what you did so the most you can do is just talk to her...hopefully she will listen and you have to listen as well...

Answer 9

of course you have to stay . talking with your mom 'll lead to ice break in your relation at the end she worry about you..

Answer 10

come on girl must think before u do it. i am 20 and still didnt have sex i kinda feel proud and shamed...