the thing was I didn't think this person would really come here, so I sort of posted this address on one of her myspace blogs. Then I kept typing in the yahoo chat room that she was not going to come here. But does that matter? I mean would she be able to use that as justification for coming here if I were to call the police? I just need to know that. Because she is 29 and I am 20. Also, I can't talk to my mother about this because she is always around her friend, and her friend will just say I am complaining and yell at me. My mother also acts like she gets upset if I try to talk to her about anything personal. I just need to make sure that a person will not be able to use the fact that I dared them to come here as justification for coming here. Because my daring them to do so still does not justify them coming here and attacking me. They should know to just not do that. Am I right?
2006-08-06 20:49:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
guess what. you instigated the problem. you dared the person to come there. in a court of law, the sarcasm in the dare will be lost, and the text will look like an open invitation. next time, watch what you say.
2006-08-06 20:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well not quite. In plain black and white you said some words that could probably be construed as an invitation without much effort. And really for all you know she just wants to continue the discussion face-2-face. Regardless of what text you typed you cannot give consent for a stranger to come to your home and attack you. That behavior is criminal and prosecutable. However until that does happen there's not much the police can do for you. In the future I'd play nice on the interweb.
2006-08-06 20:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by W0LF 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't start s*** you can handle,stop selling wolf tickets.
Learn not to take this computer dream land so seriously
If you are scared just be careful ,tell a friend and watch your self.If she comes call the police she cant come hurt you no matter what you said by daring her to come .Next time act 20 instead of 10 .
2006-08-13 05:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Yakuza 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you invited her on a dare - the only
way you could get out of it, is write her and
apologize and un-invite her. Say you made a
mistake, you acted stupid and in the heat of the
moment and please not to come to your house.
First you say: she, and then it is them. How many
people did you dare to come to your house?
If you are scared - of Them, more than one person,
than you should definitely post an open apology
to all involved in the chat room
The other solution: MOVE OUT of your mothers house
for a while. But that would be playing chicken.
So, be a big girl (20) and stand up to the problems
you caused.And learn from your mistakes. You can't
always hide behind your mother's apron.
2006-08-07 00:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not call the police. Doing so without a real reason is extremely illegal. It sounds like you have adequate protection already and if they let her in, thank her for coming and ask your mom to stay in the room with you, surely your mother wouldn't be that insensitive no matter how much she is taken with some other person. Above all trust God because it seems you have opened pandoras box.
2006-08-06 20:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't really know what you're talking about, but if I understand correctly that you basically told the person to go over to your house, then I don't think going over there wuld be a crime. Just because you didn't think that person would actually go over there doesn't mean you didn't say, "Hey, come over here."
However, if by "attacking" you mean actualy physical violence, then that would be illegal, if they actually attacked you. It might be pretty stupid of you if you provoked them into coming over to your house and attacking you, but still...
Anyway, I would probably keep the police out of it. I'm not a lawyer, so I can't say for certain, but provoking someone or "daring" someone probably wouldn't be the best case for you... For whatever it is that happened...
2006-08-06 20:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You brought this on yourself. No the police will laugh at you. 1) you dared her to show up and 2) you gave her your flippin address DUH. That was an invite. If you really didn't want this person to show up they you shouldn't have given her your address. Also you act like being 20 is an excuse for stupidity NEWS FLASH: YOUR AN ADULT NOW. Just as a side note get out of your momma's house and grow up.
2006-08-11 01:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thing is you didn't think before you typed. People are not trust worthy and you have never met this person. Big Fat Red Flag. You could die...then and only then will a crime have been committed
2006-08-06 21:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anne M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man, you've got problems. Actually, if it was a guy and I was your neighbor, I would come over. I love knocking people the **** out. It's a girl though, what's the worst thing she could do? Invite some of your homegirls if you're that scared. I dont think that person would come, that would just be stupid.
2006-08-06 20:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sonny M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i do not understand why, you would give out your personal information, online !! Dont you watch the news? you say it does not justify them coming to attack you --why not? you invited them. people are crazy out there-you dared someone to come to your house-gave them your info-now you've put everyone in jeopardy. and your stressing.
what did you do or say in the first place to outrage this person? you must of said something-
never ever ever give out personal information to anyone in a chat room-never give personal information to someone you do not know-
2006-08-06 21:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by gemini~~~marie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋