I was born on Friday the 13th 1976 at 4.50pm?

Question

I have had 2 bad relationships in the past but never really lost my heart i am dating this guy 8 yrs senior to me whos a Taurian born on the 13th of May 1968.i have so lost my heart to him, pls tell me if it will work

Answer 1

I would need more info first: your place of birth and his place and time of birth to look at your Synastry (relationship astrology).

You must look to the whole chart to see what type of people you are attracted to not just your own sun sign and the other person's sun sign.

What aspects do your Sun, Moon and Ascendent make?

The 1st house is you, your personality and appearance..
The 5th house rules love affairs.
The 7th house rules partnerships.
The 8th house rules sexuality.

What planets are in the above houses and what aspects do they make? What signs are those planets in? What sign is on the cusp of those houses? What elements (fire, earth, air & water) and qualities (cardinal, fixed & mutuable) are involved?

For a female's chart you can look to the Sun and Mars and their aspects for what types of males they are attracted to.

For a male's chart you and look to the Moon and Venus and their aspects for what types of females they are attracted to.

Ideal Man for a Woman
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

Ideal Woman for a Man
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealwomanforaman.html

Any sign can be with any other sign. It all depends on your whole chart, based on your DATE, PLACE, EXACT TIME of birth, not just your Sun signs.

Your whole chart then is then compared to the other person's whole chart using a technique called Synastry.

The aspects between each other's planets and points must be looked at and interpreted. The planets in each others houses must be looked at and interpreted, both ways. Affinities must be looked for. It's not simple to a layperson, but it is to people who are educated in Astrology terminology.

Sun sign horoscopes are absolutely inaccurate to determine compatibility between two people.

More info:

Synastry link:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html

Affinity link:

http://www.thezodiac.com/room.htm

I wish you the best of luck together! :)

Answer 2

It will never work if you concentrate on all this astrology stuff instead of each other and your feelings and caring for each other. Stop this nonsense and start living your life and love based on your feelings and not on some astrological reports that are made up by someone you don't even know. Come back to reality -- that's where the love is

Answer 3

This could be a match made in heaven. Stability, warmth and commitment with this person can help you find the love you've always dreamed of. i got that from horoscope.com
-good luck

Answer 4

It won't if you turn to strangers for strength...

Answer 5

OMG, it doesn't matter what day and time or year you were born....get a clue....it will only work if the relationship is GOD WILLING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

what month were you born and where?

Answer 7

I would have been able to answer but you did not put what month you was born.
Send me a message with your email address and you birth dates, and I will send you a numerology report for you both if I have time
I will do you a compatibility report OK
This is for him
May 13, 1968
Personal Year: 8
This is the time during which you will receive payment for the seeds you have sown in the past. The new beginnings made during the 1 vibration are now bearing fruit, and this may mean money, power, and recognition. This is also a time of making payment, and clearing debt. You are charged with a powerful energy now, that literally gives you increased physical strength and stamina, with which you can make great strides in whatever area you wish.
Personal Month: 7
This is a good month to read, study and acquire information. Whatever has begun can be perfected now. Start meditating in the mornings. Don't tell anybody what you are working on. Rest up for next month you go public!
Personal Day: 5
You're sexy today in a freedom loving kind of way. Do something totally unexpected! Get out-of-doors. Wear ocean blue or cloud white. Change your hair color or your laugh.
Destiny: 33
The Destiny number describes the life lessons that we have come here to learn. It reveals to us the path we must take, and the role we must play to fulfill our mission. Often our choice of career is based on this vibration, and if not, then it will manifest through avocational pursuits. We may attract people and experiences into our lives that mirror the traits of this number for us, so that we may develop into our highest potential. We don't always welcome our life lessons, so it is a possibility that we may even feel an aversion to the characteristics of our Destiny number in other people, and we may ourselves act the opposite. In spite of the many ways we may choose to react to this force within us, we have been gifted with all of the talents and energy needed to fulfill our Destiny. As the higher octave of the number 6, "master number" 33 is the number of compassion. It is called the Christ vibration and requires self-sacrifice, courage and unwavering commitment to reform , truth and healing. You are on a "mission", and other teachers will learn from your honesty, discipline and bravery. You are here to provide sustenance for the hungry, whether it be through food, beauty, education, ministry or medicine. Yours is the path of "savior".
Cycles
The destiny is divided into 3 great cycles, each governing us for specific durations throughout our life. The Seed cycle begins at birth and colors our experiences through childhood and adolescence. During the year nearest our 28th birthday, we move into the Fruit cycle which remains throughout the middle part of our life until the year nearest our 56th birthday, and the Harvest cycle carries on from there. Taken all together, the cycles show us our particular path that will lead to the fulfillment of our destiny.
Seed: 5
When 5 is the seed cycle, the imagination is limitless and the physical/sexual nature should not be reprimanded, but rather nurtured (through allowing) in it's natural, healthy direction. Since this is a time to learn about change and freedom, there may be many changes of residence, divorce of the parents, illness or even abuse. All things are for the purpose of growth. Curiosity and wonder fill the space between adventure and adventure.
Fruit: 4
This is a time for practical, step by step efforts and responsibilities. Order, details, plans and logic all come under four. Creativity can be focused into something of practical, functional use. This is a time of learning that nothing comes without an appropriate exchange of energy. It is a time for building things; buildings, bridges, families, and futures.
Harvest: 6
During this cycle you are likely to be surrounded by loved ones, neighbors, flowers, and pets. All revolves around your home and the magnetism of your warmth and love. Helping those in need is a common aim for the 6, and it is a good time to volunteer or organize fund raisers for your favorite charities.
Pinnacles
The four pinnacles reveal the high spots or heights of attainment that we are likely to encounter as we move along the path of our life. The 1st pinnacle lasts from birth to around age 28. The 2nd pinnacle lasts for 9 years after that. the 3rd pinnacle lasts 9 more years, and the 4th pinnacle carries on through the rest of our life. The peak of the pinnacle is reached during the next 1 personal year. Pinnacles are like sudden inheritances from a benevolent aunt, they can transform the prevailing energies completely and suddenly. It is useful to look ahead and prepare for our pinnacles so that we can maximize their gifts to us and shape them into the most positive manifestation.
First Pinnacle: 9
Inspiration is very accessible now and works of genius can be born. This is a time for self-less service and working for the good of all. As the 1st pinnacle, 9's are often romantic seekers of the "perfect love". Poets, dreamers, and prophets.
Second Pinnacle: 1
This is a period of independence, action and new beginnings. Through the power of concentration and the power of desire, manifestation is very easy during this vibration.
Third Pinnacle: 1
A new phase of life is emerging and it is the time to lay down the foundation. To shape and mold a new vision, the ideal vision of your creation, your life.
Fourth Pinnacle: 11
Legacies and inheritances may come to you now, however, it is not the time for any kind of commercial pursuit. Now is the time to harness the high vibrational energies surrounding you and channel them into something useful that benefits all. Invention and inspiration are yours for the asking.
Challenges
The three challenges show us the major influences demanding our attention during specific sections of our lifetime. The 1st challenge influences the years from birth to age 28. The 2nd challenge takes over from age 28 to 52, and the third affects us our whole life. Challenges shape our attitudes and can affect our health. These vibrations that challenge us, cause either an exaggeration of the associated qualities or a lack of them, both of which are extremes which need to be brought into balance.
First Challenge: 1
The 1 challenge child usually has a misleading impression of authority or gender roles and especially of the active or assertive role. They may be raised in a physically violent atmosphere and learn to explode when their frustration builds. The creative impulse is often stifled by control or confused and tied to acceptance or rejection. The 1 therefore learns to manipulate creatively in an effort to gain love and in contrast, becomes dependent on those whom they are manipulating. One result is that they break away from parents and subsequent relationships in a kind of revenge, and feel resentment for being forced to break away. With the development of overview, compassion, and intuition the 1 can balance this challenge.
Second Challenge: 2
This is the challenge of sensitivity and self-sacrifice. Two's look for needs to be filled in others and attempt to fill those needs while ignoring their own, all with the hope that someone will take care of them in return. It is possible that a two challenger can manifest just the opposite as well and be preoccupied with their own needs, feelings, desires, beliefs to the point that other people are only here to fill their endless requirements. Balance is found between the independence of 1 and the self-expression of 3.
Third Challenge: 1
The challenge of ambition and will-power. The 1 challenge holder may feel that their natural will and desire to create, explore and discover, is being thwarted by external circumstance or authority. This may lead them to snuff out their own bright flame in an effort for harmony. The challenge is to acknowledge this tendency and to force themselves to forge ahead and assert their will against, or in spite of opposition. The key is to act upon one's firm decisions, making sure it is the best choice and then committing to the final outcome. The opposite of this is possible where the challenger is so focused on their own will and desires that they trample over everything else in their path. In this case the remedy is to realize that we are all sharing this experience together, and to act accordingly.


Love & Blessings
Milly