Shes gonna have her Baby in a month .... Do u think its a good thing if she feels her and her guy are ready?
2006-08-06 20:45:51 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think she should consider adoption for the baby if she is only 14. I know what is going to happen her boyfriend says he is ready but I know from experience he is going to run and leave her to take care of the baby herself. I know how she is going to feel and I know what she is going through I was in her shoes when I was 17 he ran out and told me he didn't want the baby at all. I knew I couldn't take care of her so I was going to give her up for adoption but he got her instead. And he wont let me see her or anything. Now me and my husband can not have children at all thats what the doctors told us. So all we can do is look for a child to adopt but we are having no luck yet. Adoption we were told would cost between 10,000 and 100,000 dollars to adopt a baby so we have to find a person that wants to give their baby up for adoption ourselves because adoption is really expensive.She has a chance if she decides to give the baby up for adoption give the baby a better life and who knows she could be an ANGEL sent from God to give me and my husband the chance to be parents or if not us people like us. I will be her
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2006-08-06 21:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by kitten16_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a baby is the most wonderful thing, women and men can be 30 still be too young so I think it is harsh to say ay 14 she doesnt have a clue. It is hard for anyone no matter what age but with family support and good intentions she could make a very good mum. A few generations ago this would have been the perfect age!
2006-08-06 21:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by kylie3487 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,I don't think that anyone is ready to have kids at this age and time.As for the 14 yr old,she and the person responsible for the baby will soon realize that its not easy being a parent without an education...They have basically thrown their lives away without even given it a chance to blossom.In my opinion there is no such thing as being ready!!!
2006-08-06 20:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by wolf man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t think she is emotionally, mentally or physically ready to have a baby. Being 14 yrs old and having to have a child really needs a lot of responsibility. If she has help I believe she can do it, but she needs to make sure her baby is getting the live it deserves in the process of school.. and all of her other responsibilities.
2006-08-06 20:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been 14 at one point in my life, and being the mother of a thirteen year old, I would say that it would be very sad to have a baby at fourteen years old. There is so much more life to live....so much more crazy experiences to have.....so many more people to meet.....so much more education to get. Unfortunately, since she is due to have the baby next month, she damn well has to be ready. Someone has to take care of the little one.
2006-08-06 21:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, best wishes for the mother and baby! God Bless
It is a popular feeling that the age is too early to take family responsibilities. It is an age to school, study well, work hard, get a good job etc. And I would say, No, to motherhood at such an age. 20 and beyond 25 is good to lead a family life!
Best wishes
2006-08-06 20:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by tls.bhaskar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. At 14? She shoudl have really done that baby-for-a-day program. We had to take care of an mechanical baby over the weekend and boy, was that horrible.
I wanna meet these people so I can have a good long laugh.
2006-08-06 20:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how "ready" this chick thinks she is, no one is ******* ready to have a hu.man infant in their control and be responsible for another human life before the age of like 27. This girl is irrispoinsible and would be insane not to put the child up for adoption.
I know this sounds insensitive but the child will most likely have a terrible life in the hands of this girl.
The way I see it, she probably won't really have time to love and nurture this baby.
I've known teen mothers and comparing them to adult mothers, they dont seem to love their children. I'm not saying they don't love them but they feel like the kid is getting in the way of their social lives so they do whatever to get them to behave. Even hit them. If this girl has any sort of relation to you, please give her this advice: Do what you think will truly be best for your child and yourself. Really think about it. Don't feel like you're neglecting this child by putting it up for adoption. Do what feels truly the best.
2006-08-07 18:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by Violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope they have no clue how much care and love a baby needs. I baby sat this little girl since she was two weeks old and sometimes I would have her two weeks at a time. So I know, and it isn't easy you don't know how much they need till you take care of one and for someone who is not physically and mentally stable for one it could be extremely stressful and could cause them to take it out on the baby
2006-08-06 21:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her feeling that way is all emotions! i had mine at 20 and his dad was 30 and i was very mature 4 yrs ago but now i dont think anyone is ever ready for it because its a life long thing and we are all always growing up till the day we die so its not easty top grow up and raise someone else at the same time!! i wish her the best and pray for the best also!!
2006-08-06 20:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by kartoon529 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋