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If i as a man was tied up and raped, as it's a really traumatic experience would it be possible for me to have an orgasm, and would it be pleasurable if even just for a second?

2006-08-06 20:22:51 · 31 answers · asked by rifkenhob 1 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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Yes. Rape victims can have orgasms during the experience, & it's still rape.
Not sure if serious question or not. But anyways, orgasm or no, rape is rape.

2006-08-06 20:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by sisofphil 2 · 0 0

No one finds pleasure in rape - if you did or would - it is not rape. There are sexual fantasies about being tied up etc so that is something differnent but rape is an act of hate and abuse -I don't know if men would orgasm though - I m sure some do as they can't avoid it sometimes but mentally there should be no pleasure and perhaps not even an erection if they are not turned on.
Most men are not raped because more men than women rape. Unless it is a man raping a man in which case these do not apply. But rape is not pleasurable - it is, like you said, traumatic. But some people have these kinds of fantasies and act it out with someone they know cause it turns them on - to be so submissive and out of control - so the fantasy is different than the actual act of rape itself.

2006-08-06 20:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

If you don't want it to happen and it is forced upon you it is rape, and if your body reacts to it with an orgasm, you can't help that because it is a physiological response to the sensitive areas of your body having friction applied to them, etc. So it is considered rape regardless of if you orgasm or not as long as it is unwanted contact., especially if it was traumatic for you. Our minds and bodies can have different reactions - guys can get boners out of nowhere during class when they aren't thinking of anything sexual, right? Same sort of thing....if you think you were raped you should talk to someone about it

2006-08-06 20:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ree 2 · 0 0

Yes.

Regardless of what others say, most men do not consider the act of sex as a violation of their sanctity. Most men will be merely "inconvenienced" by the act. Surprisngly, if the rapist is intersted only in raping you and not hurting you, you may actually feel your heartbeats increase and surprise, even a erection.

A man will rape you by penetrating your anus. Understand this. Men have a postrate gland. Women do not. Therefore, it will be pleasureable for you.

Having said that, imagine the worst, dirtiest, pus leaking, salivating homeless bum you can find raping you. Isn't that disgust you feel? That is ultimately what rape is all about. You not liking sex. Having someone tie you up while he pumps you is merely fantasy. Being horrified at someone you loathe pump you up is rape.

Its good to sit at home and fantazise about it with your same sex partner or your woman (ask her to try the smallest size strap on dildo on you first). Do not do these stunts in reality. You can get killed. Worse, disabled or incapaciated for life. Leave the got-raped-then-began-enjoying-it-like-hell situations to erotic stories and cartoons. Not really recommended.

2006-08-07 03:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by zubin g 1 · 0 0

It would depend on the situation. If another guy's doing it to you, chances are you won't find that very pleasing, and may be able to inhibit yourself enough (cause you're probably thinking about other stuff than pleasure).

If a woman does it, chances are she's not doing it to get you off, she wants you to suffer and feel pain, again in which case you probably won't be able to due to the stress of the situation.

Yes, you may get an orgasm, but you won't enjoy it if it was traumatizing. You'll most likely remember the suffering you had more.

2006-08-06 20:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by komodo_gold 4 · 0 0

This is a scary question...theres no pleasure from getting raped. The definition of raped is having intercourse against your will. Sex is or should be an intimate act between two people. It scares me to think that this could happen to someone. It would not be pleasurable for either of them. I think its stupid that someone would rape an innocent person. if you want sex that bad... go grab a hooker. sorry to be rude but the question is just plain scary

2006-08-06 20:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 2 · 0 0

So you`re saying, if you raped a man could you have a orgasm? Probably, but why would you EVER want to rape somebody.

2006-08-06 20:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica Marie 4 · 0 0

Yes you probably could climax while being raped but it is still rape and it is wrong and if it happened to you you would be scarred for life. If it has happened you should report it immediately and put the rapist behind bars so he can know what it feels like to be raped.

2006-08-06 20:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by oggie 3 · 0 0

If the rape was non-consensual and you explicitly said no. It is still rape. Rapists have tried to use the excuse that a woman was sexually aroused during the act. This doesn't fly in court. Rape is rape.

2006-08-06 20:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lasher702 3 · 0 0

The body would conflict with the mind.. you may have an orgasm, but that is just the reaction coming from the body, it doesn't go over a "no"

2006-08-06 20:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by 4 · 0 0

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