2006-08-06 20:18:37 · 21 answers · asked by brittany e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because he is a pathetic loser who does not care about you!
2006-08-06 20:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a man.I'm not saying all of them would do it,but there's a good chance many more of them would if they knew they wouldn't get caught.It has nothing to do with you,and probably doesn't mean he cares about you any less.Sometimes they just do that.Does he know you know?If he doesn't,then it's time he did.Have you told him you don't like it?If you talk to him calmly and tell him you don't like it and it makes you feel bad,he should stop.If he doesn't stop when you ask,then THAT'S when there's a problem and he might need counseling for it.Sometimes,people will see how much they can get away with before someone stops them.I wish you luck in dealing with it.
2006-08-06 20:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by kimberli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is insecure in his sexuality and needs the validation of strangers. He needs more and more stimulation to feel like a man. He has crossed the line of what is acceptable for a married man. Have you seen thoee TV shows where men get arrested.
Your husband is becoming addicted to something he could arrested for if he weren';t on the computer.
Get some marriage counseling.
2006-08-06 20:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he his not supposed to do that, he should learn to respect those kind of things is for single men/woman but when you are married everything you are looking for is with your wife and husband.so is not wise to your husband to do that so let him know that you cannot bake your cake and have it as the same time.so he stlii admire the other life than the marrige life do something before you get alot of stress in your marriage.they say better late than never.half loaf is better than none?if his hidding remember the day of a thief is 40 days you will catch him in the internet doing or catching maybe even porn and when he will be aditted to it you will regret alot so deal with it now.
2006-08-06 20:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there, ive read some of the other answers and if you believe half of them you are going to be in a right state .......1st how did you find out that he is goin on these sites if it was in front of you then he has really done nothing wrong ,he hasnt gone out saying that he is going to meet with mates and gone of and meetup with someone ,it could be that you found them by mistake ,then talk to him youre husband hasnt commited any crime and is not on the road to arrest like some one else wrote he is only looking how many times have we picked up a magazine and thought good that is one good looking man mmmm ? i know i have lets put this back into reality if he managed to get any female to chat to him ....his brain would freeze up at the thoght and he would look like a right idiot its the thrill of the chase but believe me if they where to chat he would lay golden eggs trust me he has down nothing wrong but if it still upsets you then talk to youre husband good luck xx
2006-08-06 20:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would his wife think that this is odd behavior? He's not having an affair with the computer or anything on the screen, besides, they are probably men in disguise. Do you get all ove rhis case if he has a dream about anyone other than you?
2006-08-06 20:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine that only because he isnt dozing consisting of her doesnt mean he isnt 'dishonest' in a fashion. If he's giving something of himself, something personal and private that he isnt giving to you (dont comprehend if thats actual or no longer) then i could say it incredibly is dishonest you of a particular area of him. i could both ask him to give up you dont like it. tell him what you've heard about this woman. only be completely hardship-free till it stops. i'm able to comprehend why your worried. Its no longer a reliable difficulty. and that i wouldnt receive any secret agent ware both. thats slightly severe. i'm incredibly certain the workstation saves each thing from messengers on the workstation lower than momentary internet information or something in case you incredibly want to study it. reliable success! be reliable!
2016-11-23 13:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see that as disrespect for any woman specially if its the other half and not the cuple.If you don't like what he does than set your foot down and set some rules. I am sorry for this but he might not get all satisfied with just you.Ask him that becareful men can be really tricky..
2006-08-06 20:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by shasilk67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not abnormal... BUT if he was humping the computer screen while checking out naked girls on the internet... then I'd be worried!
Just talk to him, let him know this bothers you - see if you can get him to tell you what he's looking for ---
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-08-06 20:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SEEMS A LOT OF MEN DO THIS ,BUT IF HE STATS TO DO IT FOR HOURS YOU HAVE A PROBLEM AND NEED TO ASK HIM ABOUT IT,MY HUSBAND DID THE SAME THING IN THEIR MINDS ITS NOT CHEATING BUT WHEN I FOUND HIM TALKING TO A WOMEN ON THE PHONE AND COMPLAINING ABOUT ME THAT WAS GOING TO FAR,,IT REALLY IS NOT GOOD FOR US ,,THERE IS TO MUCH ION THE INTERNET,,KEEP HIM BUSY DOING THINGS WITH YOU SO HE NOT SITTING ON THE COMPUTER,,GOOD LUCK,,
2006-08-06 20:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by spunkysmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he s starting to get sick of u. b careful, too much looking will eventually lead to an affair or paid prostitutes. tell him in his face wats wrong with him n tell him u r the onli naked ***** he can look n fuc* must act fast baby
2006-08-06 20:46:23 · answer #11 · answered by he 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋