i have read it were gay people say that there top or bottom, what dose it mean???
2006-08-06 20:10:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
it referes to sexual positions... IE Top.. Bottom...
Top is the giving position and bottom is the recieving position
2006-08-06 20:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by jimdan2000 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The top is on top during sex. Typically it's the more assertive, aggresive lover. The bottom is on the bottom during sex and is usually the more submissive one. It's not just for gays and lesbians. It's also in the straight community. I read more about it from the BDSM community, which includes people of every orientation. There's also "bottoming from the top" where someone takes it somewhere from the top and "topping from the bottom" where the person on the bottom takes control during sex.
2006-08-07 12:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have done a good answer already answering this question about how a top is the penetrator and the bottom is the one being penetrated in anal sex. Versatile guys like both. The only thing I'll add is that some guys don't like anal sex. They just prefer oral sex. Others are just in to j/o and massages.
2006-08-07 07:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a top, I am the aggressor if you will. She is a bottom. She likes for me to take control and be in control. Bottom women are a beautiful group of individuals
2006-08-07 03:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by angelajock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can stick a d*ck in a hole. Does that make you a TOP?
I tihnk that some gay guys actually label themselves as TOPS when all they are good at is sticking it in. You need to be able to "work it" while it's in there folks!!
2006-08-07 13:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In sports terms, I've heard "pitcher" and "catcher" used to describe this. Personally, I'm a "team" player.
2006-08-07 04:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
top is the giving partner in anal sex, bottom is the receiving
2006-08-07 04:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Top means you giving anal sex and bottom means you receiving anal
2006-08-07 05:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by cloud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be versatile. Your statistics of getting laid go up significantly.
2006-08-07 04:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with anal sex, some people recieve it, some people give it, lmao.
2006-08-07 14:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋