Why is it always if I wanted to be with a man, then i'll be with a man. WTF? We try to be so good to out femmes and treat them like queens. Why are they always bashing us?
2006-08-06 20:06:09 · 14 answers · asked by angelajock 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am with an AMAZING woman that LOVES that I am butch. She loves being smaller than me, she loves having me wrapped around her finger, she always has me carry her bags when we go shopping. And when we go on a vacation she knows she can leave everything up to me and i'll take care of it, and her. She is a very rare woman, because most femmes are butch haters. So I know I am incredibly lucky. But I just wanted some input on this subject.
2006-08-06 20:40:06 · update #1
I'm a Femme married to my wonderful Butch. I wouldn't have it any other way! Every girl I have ever dated was butch - when I walked into a club the first words out of my mouth were "oh Butches...yum!" I'm being completly seroius - Long live Butches, they are all sexy in my book!
2006-08-07 10:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Alexis 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a hater, I'm just attracted to femmes. It's a personal preference, but a lot of my friends are butch.
2006-08-07 07:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by Paige 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think thats a huge assumption to make. im not really butch or femme (im somewhere in between) and i think both butch and femme women have qualities that i love. its just what i want at the time that draws me to one or the other.
2006-08-08 01:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by iluvhawx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hhhmmm... interesting...
I think you're looking at wrong place at the wrong time...
But to tell you, most of femmes like femmes because they want to be discreet or they want be a woman. They love being a woman and to be with a woman...
It might be that they're thinking that it's so ironic to be a butch because lesbianism -- its like loving the same sex, right? - - - its like taking off the sense of being lesbian if you're a butch because you look like a guy. Maybe? We don't know..
2006-08-07 03:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by c3ss 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess nowadays if u a stud you better have that game and really know how to get the girl cuz these femmes be on some other shyt... l wonder what the fems got to say about this?
2006-08-07 03:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by babystud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a femme, and I am in no way a butch hater. No matter who you are, you gotta do what you gotta do, and not give a crap what people say. I'm just not attracted to butches, but all the power to you all for doin' your thang!!!! As long as we lesbians are proud of who we are, then it doesn't matter. RAINBOW PRIDE
2006-08-07 13:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well than i guess am one of the weird ones cuz i'm attracted to studs and butches. My wife is a butch, i love that. I feel safe in her arms and just like you she does everything for me (which siometimes i find a bit frustrating SHHH!) i think buthes are sexy when she has to fix something around the house she gets her tools and just stare at her cuz it is so cute.
2006-08-07 09:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by ur_scooby_snack 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why ask why? I am a femme butch stud transexual macho cross dresser an I get the same treatment. It just isn't fair.
2006-08-07 03:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason that Masculine Gay men don't want Femme men.
Its a matter of personal preference. there are lots of lipsticks that like butch women
2006-08-07 03:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by jimdan2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause most of them act jus like men. An if I'm gay or bi then whats tha point in bein wit someone who acts like tha sex that u dont wanna b wit? Howeva I know way more femms that like studs then femms. So it depends on tha person. Think'a bout it....
2006-08-07 03:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by sophatup 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋