If your best friends that you have known for years came up to you and ask if your husband could give his wife a child because he was unable to have kids, would you let your husband do it.if you completely trusted your friends.
2006-08-06 19:48:58 · 15 answers · asked by Cobra 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no there are too many unwanted children in this world that they could adopt.
2006-08-06 19:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by RAILMAN 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not. Even if you trust your friends the emotional ties created by your husband fathering a child outside your marriage would cause a strain within the marriage and the friendship. Nowadays there's too many options for a couple unable to conceive by "natural" means. Besides, you never know what the future might hold and should your friends separate, your husband might be held responsible for providing for the child he fathered.
2006-08-07 03:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by Celeste A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by "give" you mean in a test tube of donated material, maybe. But the thing is, there are just too many other alternatives that don't involve the weirdness of going through a friend. I would really suggest another route, unless all other routes have been investigated and won't work for some reason.
2006-08-07 03:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way.. there are other alternatives, sperm bank, adoption... No I wont let my husband do it.. Its not about the trust issue.. But come on... its my husband and thats what I share with him... Furthermore if my husband had a kid with another women... he would definitely have feelingd for the kid...
I dont want to be put through the complications... by the way if she was your best friend, she wont be asking such a favour...
2006-08-07 03:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really wanna get yourself in trouble. That is their problem to solve. Why you wanna get involved. They can get adoption anywhere. If you let your husband to give a child to another woman, its their child. (Your husband and her's) not yours and your friend. In future, you have a lot to answer to that child and your childrens too. Do you really want that??
2006-08-07 03:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by syahzack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they are going to use their own egg and sperm through artificial insemination and my woman agrees with it, then as uncomfortable as i will be, i will support them. But definately not my woman's egg, for there are possibilities that she can grow too much attached to the baby. Also i would prefere it if we've already had all our children and we don't want any more at all, and they are still using their own ingredients.
Other than that, i will strongly oppose it.
2006-08-07 03:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard situation. I would like to think that I would say yes. It would have to be with friends that were like family, not just acquittance's. Of course even then it would have to be through artificial insemination.
2006-08-07 03:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, just because the ***** having the kid would probably demand child support forever and send you to prison if you didn't, and then they would raise the kid to hate you. I'd send them to the local sperm bank before I find them rifling through my garbage cans looking for used condoms.
2006-08-07 03:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i couldn't do that because I would be there to watch my husband and best friends child grow up
2006-08-07 02:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, The Big Chill moment....You'd really have to be drugged out to do something like that.
2006-08-07 03:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by SirEddieCook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how close you are but if it was me i wouldn't because there are so many things you can do this that wont have to involve someone Else's husband
2006-08-07 02:55:38 · answer #11 · answered by chiquita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋